Introduction

Dating Methods

Dating techniques are procedures used by scientists to determine the age of a specimen. Relative dating methods tell only if one sample is older or younger than another sample; absolute dating methods provide a date in years. The latter have generally been available only since 1947. Many absolute dating techniques take advantage of radioactive decay, whereby a radioactive form of an element is converted into another radioactive isotope or non-radioactive product at a regular rate. Others, such as amino acid racimization and cation-ratio dating, are based on chemical changes in the organic or inorganic composition of a sample. In recent years, a few of these methods have undergone continual refinement as scientists strive to develop the most accurate dating techniques possible.

DATING TIPS

It should be obvious that most dating techniques for men will work just as well for women. And it should also be obvious that most dating techniques for women will work just as well for men. For example, all of the following dating techniques apply to both genders:

Ø Taking things slow.

Ø Staying out of the “friends” category.

Ø Paying attention.

Ø Avoid married people.

Ø Flirting.

Ø Don’t cheat or put up with cheating.

DATING TECHNIQUE FOR MEN AND WOMEN (1) – TAKING THINGS SLOW

The biggest mistake many men and women make (when they’re inexperienced daters) is to take things too fast. Just because a woman jumps into bed with you on the first date doesn’t mean you should fall in love with her. And just because a man SEEMS really nice on the first date doesn’t mean you should fall in love with him. Take things slow.

Stories abound about people who have been married to spouses who had other wives. Imagine being married to a man for ten years and the finding out he has another wife and kids in another house on the other side of town! If a woman can be fooled for that long by a man she’s married to, imagine how fooled you can be by a man on a first date. I’m not saying that you can never really know another person, but people are easily and often fooled. Taking things slow lessens your chances of being fooled and getting into a really bad situation you’ll regret.

DATING TECHNIQUE FOR WOMEN AND MEN (2) – STAYING OUT OF THE FRIENDS CATEGORY

It’s common for a man to fall for a woman who’s not interested in him. But she’s got nothing else to do on Saturday night, so she spends it having dinner and drinks with a man as “just friends”. This is a situation a man should avoid for several reasons. The main reason is because spending time with a woman who just wants to be friend means you’ll be spending less time with women who might want to pursue an actual romance.

This happens sometimes with women who are interested in men too, but it’s less common.

One way to avoid the “friends” category is to go for the kiss at the end of the date. If he or she doesn’t want to kiss you after the first date or two, then guess what? He or she isn’t interested in you romantically.

So move on already.

(It’s okay to have friends of the opposite sex. Just make sure they’re not people you want to date, because if they are, you could wind up disappointed and lonely for a long time.)

DATING TECHNIQUE FOR MEN AND WOMEN (3) – PAYING ATTENTION.

It doesn’t matter whether you’re a man or a woman, you should pay attention to a person you’re dating. For one thing, if it’s early in your relationship, you need to be looking for warning signs that this is or isn’t a person you want to even use your “dating techniques” on. And if your relationship has been going on for a while, you need to pay attention to make sure that things are going as well as they ought to be.

Taking things for granted is a dating technique that never works.

DATING TECHNIQUE FOR WOMEN AND MEN (4) – AVOID MARRIED PEOPLE.

Oh, you can hang out with married people, especially when they’re together. But DATING married people is a mistake, even if you don’t have a moral or religious objection to it and neither does your date. Here’s why:

Dating someone else’s husband or wife can be dangerous.

Suppose you’re very mature, and you’ve met a married woman, and she’s very mature too. And you’ve been straightforward and honest with each other about your marital situations, and you’re both okay with just dating and having sex behind her husband’s back. And everything’s cool, right?

Until he finds out and buys a gun.

Sounds silly, but it’s not. If they’re married, don’t date ‘em.

DATING TECHNIQUE FOR WOMEN AND MEN (5) – FLIRTING

Flirting is one of those dating meta-skills that everyone should have. Here are a few resources about flirting that might help you improve your flirting techniques:

DATING TECHNIQUE FOR MEN AND WOMEN (6) – DON’T CHEAT. DON’T PUT UP WITH CHEATING.

Define cheating any way you like, but once you’ve defined it for yourself, don’t do it. Cheating is always a matter of not keeping a commitment, and when you do that, you destroy your own self-esteem. (You build self-esteem by keeping your commitments to yourself and to others.)

If you put up with cheating from the person you’re in a relationship with, then you can expect it to happen over and over again. It’s a subtle form of abuse, and it’s not good for you in any way to be abused.

How you define cheating in your relationship is up to you and your partner.

HOW TO CUM - ORGASM TIPS FOR GIRLS

Learning how to cum is not difficult. It's not like learning how to give a good blow job. Having gotten many emails from frustrated girlfriends and married women that can’t orgasm properly and fully, I decided to put together a step-by-step guide to teach you how to make yourself cum. Just follow these simple steps and you will soon be having powerful orgasms.

Before you learn these awesome techniques on how to orgasm, just remember that you are not the only one. There are many girls and even some guys out there that have trouble reaching orgasm and Cumming.

There are two distinct problems that women have. First is not being able to cum when you are pleasuring yourself. Second is not being able to cum during sex. We will discuss both here, but we’ll begin by discussing how to cum when pleasuring yourself.

HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF CUM

The first step to making yourself cum is learning to relax. Obviously this may sound difficult, but you will find that the best way to relax is to make sure that you don’t have any serious commitments for a few hours. So make sure that you take care of any work, be it laundry, tidying your place, or even paying bills. So now you’ll have a few hours free of any commitments.

Now that you have some time to yourself, you need to start putting yourself in the mood. Think of this as the foreplay (a serious part of learning how to cum).

EXAMPLES OF THIS COULD BE:

v Taking a long, hot bath.

v Listening to that song that really arouses you.

v Lighting candles in your bedroom.

v Reading a few chapters of a romantic book.

v Putting on clothes or lingerie that makes you feel really sexy.

This could take you up to 4 hours. The longer the better as it will help to build anticipation. Remember this is a serious part of learning to cum properly, don’t skip it.

Next you need to get into bed. You may find that you are more comfortable under the covers, but it’s up to you. The same goes for using a lubricant or massage oil to help you to cum. Only use them if you want to.

Now you need to slowly start caressing your body where it feels best. Just lightly massage yourself. Remember that there’s no rush. Don’t even think about having an orgasm, just find the places and parts of your body that are most sensitive and give the most pleasure. Concentrate on these areas while increasing the intensity with which you rub and caress them.

Making yourself have an orgasm is not just about the physical, it’s also a very cerebral or emotional experience. So you may have a fantasy or a memory of when you were incredibly turned on by something. Use this to your advantage when learning how to cum, start thinking about that fantasy or arousing moment.

As you concentrate more and more on only the most sensitive and pleasurable (erogenous) zones, you will start to become even more aroused. Increase your arousal further by massaging yourself faster and more firmly until eventually you orgasm or cum.

You may fell a little weird or exhausted after you climax, but that’s completely normal and nothing to be worried about, it’s because you just came.

SOME TIPS
Make sure you won’t be disturbed the entire time.

You don’t have to be in the bedroom, just make sure that it’s a comfortable place and make sure that place is warm.

You may find that reading an erotic novel while massaging yourself to be the best for reaching orgasm and climaxing.

And finally, there is no rush when you are learning how to cum: Some people take a few hours, some people take a 10 minutes, different people take longer than others.

HOW TO CUM DURING SEX

According to the a recent study, 75% of women don’t orgasm during sexual intercourse, so if you are having trouble climaxing during sex, then don’t worry, it’s completely normal. However Cumming during sex is a wonderful feeling, so follow these awesome tips to make sure that you do cum during nookie.

Just like learning to cum on your own, Cuming during sex requires you to be able to relax. So don’t necessarily expect to orgasm the first time you are with a new man. Both guys and girls often find that they are a little nervous the first few times they sleep with each other. As a result you may find it hard to relax. Don’t worry, this is totally normal!

However after a while when you are with the same guy, you will slowly become more relaxed. When you do feel comfortable with your man, you can go through almost the exact same process as described in the making yourself cum section.

Take some time to feel sexy, wear clothes that make you feel sexy and make sure that you are in a place that feels sexy.

Next, make sure that your man understands foreplay. Tell him that you need it (Sometimes men forget how important it is for women as guys can get aroused so quickly and easily).

If you want to cum during sex then you’ll need to give your man directions. If you’ve never done it before then don’t sweat, it’s really easy.

When he’s touching you in an area that feels really good, just let out a sigh, “That feels so good” or “Just there” or “Higher” or “Faster”. It will let him know where to focus on and what to do. And don’t worry, men are just as worried about pleasing you as you are about pleasing them so they will listen.

WHAT MEN WANT IN A WOMAN

What men want in a Woman is not what you might think. Men do want to sleep with 'hot' girls. It is a fairly well known fact. Sorry if that came as a shock to you.

What a lot of girls don't understand is that guys do not want to spend time with airheads no matter how hot they are. They want to spend time with women they connect with. This article is going to focus on the 2 major points for getting and keeping a guy.

How to maximize your looks (the outer you)
How to build a connection with a guy (the inner you)

MAXIMIZE YOUR LOOKS

There is no easy way to say this, so I'll be straight up. Looks do count when it comes to attracting guys. Guys are sexually attracted to girls with clear skin, who dress well, have long legs and have a hip to waist ratio of 0.7 (yes that is scientific and kind of crazy, but studies have shown it to be true).

So, you need to either get clearer skin by either drinking more water and eating less greasy food or by using a good concealer. Just try not to wear really heavy make up, most guys don't like it.

Dressing well is the fun part. You need to get a friend you really trust. Someone who will tell you whether or not clothes fit you properly. Bring her shopping to help you find clothes that help hide your worst bits and show your best parts.

Getting fit is just as important. What men want in a woman, are girls with slim figures but they are not attracted to skinny girls. So keep that in mind. Losing weight is great, but not being toned is terrible. What men want in a woman is a firm bum and breasts, not a skinny girl with no assets. So do go to the gym or play sports to stay fit, but don't worry about being a size 4.

HOW TO BUILD A CONNECTION WITH A GUY

Building a connection with a guy is more important than being really good looking if you want a relationship with him. Guys will get bored really easy with a girl who is all looks but a total bore to be around. What men want in a woman is a great connection. So how do you go about building a connection with him?

FIND COMMONALITIES

This may be obvious, but finding commonalities with a guy is the first and most important thing you can do when starting to build a connection with him.

Do you both like the same movie, hate the same celebrity, love a certain food, despise the same sports team? To find out you can do two things.

Ø Make a statement about how you love a song or how something reminds you about a movie you like.

Ø Ask what he does when he's not hanging out with you?

When you find out what your shared interests are, talk about them. It's that simple.
Note: This is something you should never fake. What men want in a woman is honesty; so don't pretend you like something just to build a connection. It's fake and he will sense it and lose trust in you

CREATE 'YOUR WORLD'

To make a connection with a guy stronger, you need to create a 'your world' dynamic between the 2 of you. Think of it as creating a conspiracy where only you 2 know what's going on.

A great way to start this off is through 'people watching'. If you 2 just met in a bar, tell him how funny it is seeing guys trying to pick up chicks in the bar and start pointing out guys approaching girls to him. Then start guessing what they are saying to each other. This helps to create the 'your world' dynamic that will deepen the connection.

Other things to help create 'your world' are to jokingly judge other peoples funny behavior when you are hanging out. So if you are at a bar, start joking about how you think the barman is a serial killer because he has loads of tattoos and looks like some guy you saw on TV or something ridiculous like how you think your waiter may be gay.

This may sound mean, but you don't really believe these things. You are just joking around, pretending you and the guy you are with are the only people that know about the waiter possibly being gay or the barman being a serial killer. There is no need to be serious; this needs to be done in a joking way.

LISTENING AND OFFERING ADVICE

Sometimes a guy you are with will come to you with a problem. This is a good sign. Just remember that guys are a little different to girls, they don't just want someone to listen to their problems. They want a solution. So if you have a good solution for him, do give it. Do not just give him some crappy feel good advice. This is not what men want in a woman.

They really want to solve their problems if they come to you looking for advice. So if you can't help them, then at least send them in the right direction of where they can find help with their problems.

TRUST

Just like you don't want a guy telling all his friends about you two, a man does not want you telling all your friends and family his secrets. So as tempting as you may find it to dish all the gossip to your friends, there's no need to. You are better off not doing that.

Not only this, but getting a guy to trust you is also key to building a great connection. How do you build trust with a guy? Honesty and backing your actions up with words. That's means telling the truth and doing what you'll say you'll do.

Hope you guys learned something form the article, not only what men want in a women but how to become a more attractive person in general

WHAT MEN WANT IN BED

Sex! But seriously, once you know what men want in bed, what they really want (this article is being written by a man BTW!), you’ll know how to keep a fulfilling and fun sex life with your guy. Follow these 5 top tips to spice things up in the bedroom.

BORN TO BE BAD

Maybe you are in a nice comfortable relationship with your man. The sex may be average. There’s nothing bad happening but it might not exactly be the ride of you life either. A great way to bring the spark back into the relationship is to spice it up by being a bit of a bad girl. Just like lots of girls fantasize about bad boys, guys do the same. They want to be with a girl who is wild in bed, someone who really loves sex and shows it.

Specific things you can do to bring out your wild side are:

Grab his back, bum, shoulders and arms during sex. Grab them hard and don’t be afraid to sink your nails in a little bit.

Gently use your teeth to bite his skin.

Pull the back of his hair.

DIRTY TALK

Often what men want in bed is for a girl to talk to them, to give them feedback on how they are doing. “Faster”, “slower”, “harder”, “deeper” are all things men like to hear in bed. These things turn guys on for two reasons:

1) It boosts their egos. To have a girl scream in pleasure, “harder, harder” makes a man feel like he is doing his job properly
2) It teaches them! That’s right by telling a man what feels good and what feels bad in bed, you will make him perform better each time.

MAKE IT LOOK GOOD

Men are visual creatures; what they see turns them on. This is why pornography is such a big business. What men want in bed is to be able to see what is happening. Most of the time, they want the lights on and they want to see you! They want to see your face, boobs and butt. This is highly arousing to men.

FANTASY

Just like you sometimes fantasize about being with other men or in other places during sex, so does your man. Giving him that fantasy is highly powerful. The key to this is talking to your man and finding out what he likes or what he wants. The best way to do this is to go first: that is to mention something you want to do in bed first or something that you want to try. It doesn’t have to be totally wild or over the top (the whole idea is to show him that you are open to talking about your fantasies which will make him feel more comfortable). See if he is receptive to making it a reality. If he is, then ask him what he wants to try.

BE AGGRESSIVE

Often guys get tired of being the aggressive one or the one who always instigates sex. A lot of girls don’t realize that what men really want in bed is to be desired by their partner. They want their girlfriend to seduce them. They want to feel like she is overcome with desire and she has to have you. This is massively seductive to men as it boosts their ego.

FOREPLAY

There are only a few key foreplay techniques that you need to master in order to be on your way to being great in bed. You need to be able to happily delay gratification. By delaying gratification you will make it much more enjoyable when you both do climax.

FOREPLAY TECHNIQUES

A great way to make your love making more enjoyable is to focus on foreplay before you actually begin making love to your partner or husband. People (especially guys) often rush foreplay and get down to sex before either party is really that turned on.

It can be fun and exciting every once in a while to have a quickie out of the blue, but if you really want to connect and make sensual love to your partner, then engaging in proper foreplay is your best bet.

FOREPLAY FOR GIRLS

Many women think that guys don’t need or want foreplay. That’s just not true. Foreplay has the effect of teasing and titillating men so that they are almost begging for sex. A great and simple system of foreplay to use on guys is to first start off by kissing them, then taking off their clothes, then using your hands to arouse him before then going down on him for a short while and then moving on to sex.

GREAT FOREPLAY TECHNIQUES FOR GIRLS

Firstly it’s important to realize that guys get turned on almost instantly, like a light switch, so what you do physically for foreplay is never too important. The best technique to use though is to do something nice for your man to show him how you feel about him, such as making him a nice meal or taking him somewhere nice before getting down to the actual lovemaking.

One great foreplay technique you can use though is to tell him a few hours before it happens what you plan to do with him later! This will get his mind turning and wondering and wanting to know what is coming later.

How to Give a Guy Good Head

Knowing how to give a guy good head is very important if you want to make sure you both have a great sex life. It is also the key to making sure he returns the favor!

Follow these simple steps to make sure that he is always left smiling after you give him a blowjob.

Firstly you need to make sure that you both have good hygiene. You need to make sure you brush your teeth thoroughly before getting down to business. You also need to make sure you man is clean too! Make sure he has a shower so that he is clean and ready for you.

Next, it’s important to build up a bit of anticipation before getting down to it. Make sure that you are wearing something that you know turns him on. And don’t forget that you both need to be somewhere private where you won’t be disturbed!

You may be surprised to find that learning how to give a guy good head is actually easy. The best way to begin giving him head is to start by kissing him on the lips and neck while using your hands to massage his penis outside his pants. After a few minutes of this, you can move on to unbuttoning his trousers and quickly move down to his crotch (don’t forget most guys don’t need any foreplay at all, so you only need to be kissing him for 1-2 minutes before you start giving him head).

When you do get down there, don’t wrap your mouth around his shaft straight away. Instead start by kissing him everywhere but his actual penis. Then after a minute or two of this, move on to kissing his shaft, but don’t take it into your mouth just yet! Keep kissing it.

Then start sliding your tongue up and down his shaft to make sure that it’s wet for you. After a little while of this you can eventually take him in your mouth and start giving him head. Make sure that you have a bit of saliva in your mouth for lubrication. All you need to do is to suck gently and slide you mouth up and down. That’s pretty the basics to fellatio or giving a guy good head.

HOW TO SEXUALLY SATISFY YOUR MAN ALWAYS

Sexually satisfying your man every time takes work.

But so does everything worth anything.

The key to truly making sure that your man is always satisfied in bed is constantly learning new tips, tactics, techniques and tricks. Inside and outside of the bedroom.

To achieve this, you need to follow 2 important rules. These rules are woven together. You can't have one without the other.

VARIATION
If you only ever have sex at night, in the bedroom or at the same time everyday, then things are going to get boring fast.

A boring sex life is closely related to cheating.

So what can you do if you want to introduce variation as part of your sex life? Checking out the bj tips in the how to give a blowjob is a good start. But for the time being, start looking into the following areas:

WHERE
This is easy.

Try changing from the bedroom to the living room, bathroom, kitchen and beyond (just remember to stay legal!).

WHEN
Grab your man the minute he comes home from work and take him to the bedroom.

Stop him in the morning on the way to work, when he's at the door.

The next time you are at a party together, grab him and take him to a free bedroom.

TRY NEW THINGS
This refers to every aspect of your sex life. Not just sex, but oral sex, sensual massage and what you wear. Everything.

v Try using toys

v -Try watching a blue movie together

v -Try new positions

v -Try wearing sexy lingerie

v -Try taking things much slower than normal

v -Try having more quickies

COMMUNICATION

Sounds cheesy, right? We're not registered therapists at Real Dating Tips, but good communication is key to keeping your sex life interesting, More importantly, it's key to keeping your sex life satisfying.

Why?

YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHAT WORKS (AND KEEP USING IT).

You need to discard what doesn't work.

But how do you get your partner to open up about this stuff? Especially if he is shy or conservative?

Go First + Just Do It

Talking about wanting to try new things first is a great psychological trick to get your partner to open up about what he wants to try.

But what if he doesn't open up?

JUST DO IT. Just take control and try it. The worst he can say is no.

HOW TO SUCK COCK

When you know how to suck cock the right way, your man will always have a smile on his face. When you don’t know how to suck his cock properly, then he is much more likely to cheat. It’s a sad fact, but guys are much more likely to cheat if they are not being sexually satisfied.

So what can you do to make sure that your man is always sexually satisfied? What specific tips and techniques can you use to learn how to suck cock the right way?

IT’S NOT JUST SUCKING

When you think about how to suck cock, you obviously think about the sucking part, right? What you may not realize is that there is a ton of other great oral sex tips and techniques that you can use make a blowjob special.

If you just focus on sucking, your man will definitely enjoy it, but there is the risk that he will start to get bored.
1.         To spice things up, there is quite a few different things that you can do. First you should start with the simple things. While sucking his cock, stop for a little bit and start to kiss it and lick it instead. This is nothing special, but it is a new sensation that your man will definitely enjoy. Once you feel comfortable doing this, it’s time to try some more techniques and ‘moves’

2.         While you are using your mouth to suck his cock, your hands will be free. You can use your hands to GENTLY and SLOWLY massage his testicles. They are extremely sensitive (ever see a guy get hit in the balls? It hurts!). But massaging them with your hands feels great for him.

3.         If you are not keen to massage his balls with your hands, you can use them to give him a hand job while you are sucking his cock. Simply grab his penis with your hands and slowly massage it up and down.

If you grab his cock too hard, it will hurt him. But, if you don’t grab it firmly enough, he won't get much sensation. The only way to know how hard you should grab it is through practice. Practice is the key to learning how to suck cock properly.

TEASE HIM

So many girls just don’t get this. Teasing a man sexually is simply delaying sexual gratification now, so that he’s looking forward to it in the future. It keeps him thinking about you constantly.

By giving in quickly, your man won’t value you as much…..Remember this!

This does not mean that you should withhold sex or a blowjob from your man. Instead it means that you should build up the anticipation.

HOW CAN YOU SPECIFICALLY BUILD ANTICIPATION?

Simple…

Send him a text early in the day when you are not together. Tell him that you have a surprise for him later, but that he has to wait. Make it suggestive, say things like…

“My lips are burning, I need you…”

1. Notice how this sentence could mean anything? That’s the point. It’s supposed to get him thinking about you. It’s a bit cryptic and a little sexual, perfect for teasing him and building tension

“I have a little surprise for you when I see you later, can you guess what it is? I’ll tell you if you are hot or cold! X”

2. Again this sentence is a little cryptic. But that’s the point, it gets him thinking about you, wondering what it is you have in store for later. Plus as you text back and forth, it will slowly start to get sexual.

These texts are designed to tease him, to get him thinking about you. To get him wondering if he’ll be getting his cock sucked or if he’ll have to wait.

***Just remember that this teasing can work like TNT. Just the right amount and it’s perfect. Too much and you can ruin everything.

GREAT BLOWJOBS TAKE PRACTICE

When you are first learning how to suck cock, it can be kinda scary. You may not be sure if your man will like it or not, or you may be wondering if he’ll think you are terrible.

The fact is, practice makes perfect. The more you practice going down on your man, the better you will get. So don’t worry if you are a little awkward or nervous in the beginning. Everybody is.

HOW TO GIVE A BLOWJOB - A COMPLETE GUIDE TO GIVING HEAD!

Learning how to give a blowjob properly can be a little daunting at first. But fear not. The team here at Real Dating Tips is going to take you by the hand and show you step by step exactly how to give a blow job. These are stated as follows:

Ø Basic Blowjob Tips

Ø Intermediate Blowjob Tips |

Ø Advanced Blowjob Tips

The first thing that you should realise, before considering anything else is that giving a good blowjob takes a little practice. It's just like riding a bike. So don’t worry if your first few blowjobs don’t go so well. The more blowjobs you give, the better you will get.

Before we get to the actual tips and techniques for giving a great BJ, there is just one thing that I have to say first.

Be Clean & Safe. This means that you should brush your teeth and use some mouthwash regularly so that when you do go down on your man, you are hygienic. The same goes for your man, make sure he showers regularly and that he cleans his penis. If either of you have had multiple sexual partners before, then it may be a good idea to also get an STI check-up just to be sure that you don't catch anything.

I hate to sound like you mom, but this is important, there is nothing worse (and embarrassing) than catching something off your man, or vice-versa.

Ok, so now that you have both made sure that you are clean and hygienic, it’s time to get down to business! It time to learn how to give a blowjob

BASIC BLOWJOB TIPS

Before getting to the really good stuff, there are some basic tips and techniques that you should use when learning how to give a blowjob. While these tips don’t sound amazing, they are a great building block to really satisfying your man.

Men like it wet! This might sound a bit crude, but it’s a fact. The wetter the blowjob, the better. To men, a wet and moist blowjob feels fantastic, but a dry one feels like sandpaper.

So to make sure that your man enjoys a nice, luscious blow job, you need to try and produce a lot of saliva. To do this, the easiest thing that you can do is to chew some gum before going down on him.

Another tactic, is to just suck his penis like a lollipop. This will stimulate your mouth to produce more saliva.

Make It Comfy! When you are first learning how to give a good blow job, make sure that you are somewhere comfortable with your man. This is for a number of reasons.

Ø -It helps you stay relaxed and focused on the job at hand ;)

Ø -It helps your man to stay relaxed. Don’t forget that he may be a little nervous about ‘performing’ too, so giving him head in a comfortable room is a great idea.

Suck, Don’t Chew! This should hopefully be very obvious when you first start learning how to give head, but down there, men are incredibly sensitive! A man’s penis is almost as sensitive as the clitoris, so it’s very easy to hurt it. This is one of the most often overlooked parts of learning how to give a blowjob to your boyfriend.

For most, it’s very easy to avoid using your teeth on your man’s penis. However, some of you may have smaller mouths and you may find it difficult to avoid using your teeth. If this sounds like you, then your best option is to just wrap your lips over your teeth so they act as a sort of shield to protect him.

This wraps up the basic section on how to give a blowjob to your man.

INTERMEDIATE BLOWJOB TIPS

Now that you have read the basics of how to give a blow job to your man, it’s time to move on to the specific techniques on how to suck cock that you can use to really drive your man wild with pleasure when giving him head.

Use Mouthwash For That Cool Feeling! Think about the feeling you get in your mouth after using mouthwash and spitting it out…

It feels all cool and tingly because your mouth is a quite sensitive. A man’s penis is ten times more sensitive than his mouth, so imagine what just a tiny bit of mouthwash will feel like on it?

It feels great!

HOW CAN I BE SURE?

Because I am a man! And I love it! If you want to try something different and excite your man at the same time, then you have to try rinsing your mouth out with mouthwash before going down on him. This is one of the easiest blowjob tips you can do when learning how to give a blowjob.

Listen! You can never be totally sure just how much your man is enjoying is blowjob. If you really want to learn how to give a blow job the right way, then you need to communicate with him.

You may be feeling a little nervous or a little awkward about talking about blowjobs with your boyfriend. That’s absolutely fine. But if you really want to improve you need to get some feedback (besides his groaning!).

The best way to get some feedback from him is to tell him what you like and what you want to try in the future, and then see how he responds

USE THOSE HANDS GIRL!
When you start learning how to give a blowjob to your man and how to suck dick, you’ll quickly realise that using your mouth is not enough if you really want to be good at giving head.

There is so much more that you can do to drive your man wild. One of the best and easiest things that you can do is using your hands.

Not only does it give your mouth a rest, but it also gives your man a different sensation and feeling to his dick.

ADVANCED BLOW JOB TIPS

All of the previous tips are very straightforward. However, if you are feeling confident, they are some advanced techniques you can try when learning how to give a blowjob. Advanced basically means things like learning how to deep throat as well as some other great fellatio tips

These may seem a little out there but the fact is, they work, REALLY WELL. And I should know because, I’m a guy!

Look Into His Eyes. This may sound a little odd. But bear with me. Most guys would like to think of themselves at least a little dominant. For most it is a turn on.

A great way to make your man feel dominant when you are giving him a blowjob is to look into his eyes. You may feel a little shy or nervous doing it, but if you can muster the courage, then your guy will really appreciate it..

HOW TO GIVE A GOOD BLOW JOB - 3 POWERFUL TIPS

Once you learn how to give a good blow job, you are pretty much be guaranteed to never have a man cheat on you, EVER.

But learning how to give a good blowjob is not a particularly easy process. There are a number of different blowjob tips, techniques and tactics you can use to really ‘blow’ your man’s mind.

So you are probably wondering;

'WHAT ARE THEY?'

There are literally 100’s that are covered throughout this website. However, below you will find just a few of the really great tips that will properly teach you how to give a good blow job to your partner.

MORE THAN YOUR MOUTH

When people start to learn about how to give a good blow job, they get a little lost. They start thinking that there is some crazy mouth manoeuvre or tongue technique that they need to learn in order to get really great at giving head.

The truth is that the most enjoyable blowjob techniques for men don’t always involve the mouth directly.

Instead, it’s a combination of your mouth, hands and tongue that leads to the most enjoyable blowjobs.

A man’s penis is not the only sensitive part down there. His testicles, inner thighs and perineum (the area of rough skin just behind his balls) are all incredibly sensitive.

Stimulating these is just as good an idea as stimulating his penis.

But instead of using your mouth, you should use your hands to stimulate these parts. You can gently rub your nails over his inner thigh and perineum while using your fingers to massage his testicles.

The great thing about doing this, is that you can still use your mouth at the same time to give him a blowjob.

FIND OUT WHAT HE LIKES

People are always talking about how communication is crucial to a good relationship and sexually satisfying your man. It’s absolutely true. If you want your relationship to go well and last, communicating effectively is important.

The same is true for your sex life and when you are learning how to give a good blow job. If you want your sex life with your partner to always improve, then you need to talk. Otherwise, how else are you going to figure out what each other likes?

For many people, asking directly is sometimes awkward and doesn’t get the right response. A better way to find out what your partner likes when you are giving him a blowjob is to first tell him what you like when he is going down on you.

BY DOING THIS FIRST, HE IS MUCH MORE LIKELY TO RECIPROCATE.

If he still doesn’t open up, then a good idea is to suggest things to him. Like:

“I was thinking of buying some sexy lingerie, do you think I should?”

“I want to try something new in bed, let me know if you like it!”

Take these as really simple and basic examples. You should try and take these examples and fit them to something that is more applicable to you and your partner.

GIVE YOUR MOUTH A REST

When people are learning how to give a good blowjob, they think that they are supposed to use their mouth from start to finish.

In actual fact, this can get a little boring for guys. Worse still, it can give you cramps in your jaw.

To make it more interesting for your man and to give your jaw a rest, every once in a while, you should try switching to giving him a handjob instead. Or just kissing his penis and massaging his balls.

FIRST TIME LOVE MAKING - MAKING LOVE FOR THE FIRST TIME

If it’s your first time love making, then chances are you might be a little nervous and a little excited. Don’t worry it’s totally normal. When you’ve finished this article, feel free to check out my next Edition. For now just follow these simple tips to make sure that making love for the first time is an enjoyable experience for you and your partner.

1. Make sure you are with someone who respects and cares about you. If you are making love to someone for the first time, you will want it to be a memorable and fun experience. So it’s important that the person you do it with does have genuine feelings for you.

2. Make sure you are safe. This can’t be stressed enough. It’s important that you use protection to prevent any diseases passing between you and you partner (Remember, some diseases don’t show many notable symptoms, so people are often unaware that they are carrying them). Using condoms is an absolute necessity to ensuring you are safe. Another aspect of being safe is making sure that someone knows where you are. You can never be too careful, so make sure to tell a friend or loved one where you are going, just in case.

3. Now that you have the first two tips taken care of, it’s time to get comfortable. Your first time love making is going to be far better if you are in a nice comfortable place. Most people use the bedroom, but you’ll often find that people make love for the first time on a couch or a even something like a rug.

4. People often use a water-based lubricant the first time they make love to ensure that both themselves and their partner have a smooth time.

5. Just relax! Many people put a lot of pressure on themselves before their first time making love. As a result, they don’t enjoy the experience at all.

HOW TO GIVE A BLOW JOB - 5 WEIRD BUT EFFECTIVE TIPS

Knowing how to give a blow job to your man is crucial is you want to make sure that he never cheats.

Below are 5 killer tips on how to give a fantastic blow job, that will help to skyrocket your success at pleasing your man in the bedroom.

1 .YOUR HANDS - DON'T FORGET ABOUT YOUR HANDS!
Girls who know how to give a blow job know that it's more than just sucking a penis.

Great blowjobs involve the hands.

Sure a guy's penis is the most important part of the blowjob. But he has a ton of other highly sensitive areas 'down there' too.

-His testicles (balls)

-His perineum (the rough skin behind his balls)

-His inner thighs

Use one hand to gently massage and rub his testicles. Use your other hand to gently massage his perineum. Drag your nails (softly!) over it.

You can also give your mouth a rest by alternating between giving him a blowjob and giving him a hand job with your hands.

Using your hands is very simple but super effective to giving a better blow job.

2. THE PORNO BLOW JOB

If you can muster the confidence to pull this off, then your man will never want another girl to give him a blowjob. EVER!

Ok, here goes...

Make sure that you are both alone.

Set up his computer at the table with a chair for him to sit on. Turn on a naughty video! Pause the video.

Next, blindfold your man. Tell him that you have a surprise for him. Take his hand and lead him to the computer. Remove his trousers and sit him down.

Then position yourself so that you can easily give him a blowjob, underneath the table.

Tell him to remove the blindfold and press play. Start to give him a blowjob.

Expect a very happy man!

3. SLOW DOWN! - BLOWJOBS DON'T LAST LONG ENOUGH
Most girls want to give their man a great blowjob experience.

"Well duh! That's obvious."

The problem is that often girls get so caught up with giving their man a great blowjob that they rush things.

He cums after just 1 minute! Sometimes quicker.

This is not always a good thing.

BLOW JOBS THAT LAST LONGER RESULT IN MUCH MORE INTENSE ORGASMS.

For your next blowjob, don't rush things. Take it super slow. Start by massaging him outside his trousers. Then slowly remove them. Gently massage his testicles. Then ever-so-gently start to touch his penis. Then softly grab it and masturbate him extra slowly.

Next start to move your head down to his penis. Slowly start to kiss his penis. After a minute of kissing it, start to lick it. After a minute of licking, slowly take his penis in your mouth.

Even if he cums 20 seconds later, it will still be far more satisfying than a one minute wonder.

4. BLOW WITH CONFIDENCE
Guys like confident girls. One of the biggest turns offs for a guy is a girl who doesn't know what she's doing. This is especially true for girls who don't know how to give a blow job.

"But what if I really don't know what I'm doing?"

The easiest thing is to just 'fake it till you make it'. This means that you should just pretend to know how to give a blow job to your man.

5. VARIATION - THIS IS CRUCIAL

Variation is the most important thing you must remember when learning how to give a blow job properly. Sure, it's not a crazy or wild tip, but the fact is,

Variation = Happy Sex Life

Men get bored with routine. This is why they cheat with 'that crazy girl'. If you keep giving him the same thing again and again, he will get bored. It's as simple as that.

So the most important thing you should do is learn as many different blowjob techniques and tactics as possible so that he never gets bored in the bedroom.

TIPS FOR DATING OLDER MEN

A lot of people have contacted us looking for some tips for dating older men.

There is something about older guys that is attractive. Maybe it's the fact that they are a bit more worldly wise and comfortable with themselves than your average 21 year old frat boy. They are usually a bit more interesting and usually have higher standards when judging a girls behavior.
So what important tips for dating older men must you keep in mind?

OLDER MEN HAVE DIFFERENT INTERESTS AND PRIORITIES

As guys mature and get older, they tend to change their interests and priorities. Most guys in their twenties go out clubbing or go out trying to pick up girls with their friends at the weekend. As they get older they slowly change and go out less and less.

Added to this, they usually have an established career and are not too worried about money. This is fantastic, as they will often have more time to spend with you instead of going out with the boys or focusing on their jobs.

OLDER MEN HAVE HIGHER STANDARDS FOR YOUR BEHAVIOR

Remember when you were 18 and you did a lot of flirting with other guys in front of your boyfriend?

My girlfriends and I had a discussion about this before writing this tips for dating older men article. We realized that we all did it a bit when we were younger.

At the time all of our boyfriends put up with it as they were about the same age (18).

We found that as we started dating older men, they tolerated this sort of behavior less and less before ending the relationship.

Older men have been on more dates and in more relationships than younger guys, so they have seen it all before.

So one of the best tips fro dating older men that I can give you is to remember that older men have higher standards when it comes to your behavior. Things like flirting with other men and turning up late for dates won't make them jealous. It will make lose respect for you.

DON'T BE A GOLD DIGGER

Sure, we'd like to think of ourselves as independent women. But at the back of our minds, we would still love to find a guy that wants to take care of us. Most of us don't want to be a housewife or anything like that, but having a guy who could support us financially if we wanted him to is kind of sexy and attractive. Maybe it's just evolution.

With that in mind, a lot of older guys have their guards up when it comes to dating younger women. They are afraid that you are just some gold digger looking for rich men, so you have to be careful about how you treat the relationship.

If you insist on him paying for everything, then you are sending bad signals. It's better to pay for your half. But it's best to pay your half unless he insists on paying. There is no need to make a big deal out of paying as long as you are happy to pay if he expects it.

BEWARE THE 'BEAUTY HUNTER'

It's great dating an older guy, especially when he can show you new experiences and you are both compatible with each other.

There is a flip side however. Some older men are only out to find a 'hot piece of arm candy'. They only want a cute girl, but don't care about who she is in the slightest. Bottom line: They only want you for your looks.

Beauty Hunters do things like:

v Only hang out with you at night.

v They don't have much interest in your hobbies or interests.

v They don't introduce you to their social circle.

v They call a lot when they're drunk (booty call)

v They never want to do what you want to do

If you're happy to be with a guy who likes you only for your beauty/youth, then that's your prerogative. But if you don't like that sort of thing, watch out for these major signs and stay away!

CONVERSATION TOPICS

Choosing the right conversation topics is the difference between a pleasant date or a really awkward one. Luckily if you're a guy there is help here.

Many people get caught up with taking their date to a fancy restaurant or a cool bar and believe that's all they need to do. These wannabe seducers fail to realize that if they can't at least hold a decent conversation with the person they are with, then a life of celibacy is imminent.

SO THERE ARE 3 MAIN TYPES OF TOPICS TO TALK ABOUT

v The good -the fun, interesting topics

v The bad -the dull, boring, overly-logical topics

v The ugly -the topics that make people feel uncomfortable

THE GOOD

These conversation topics are fun to talk about, they make you laugh a lot or grab your attention in a positive way.

v The topic that most people prefer to talk about, more than anything in the world is........themselves! That's right. Getting people to talk about themselves is fantastic. Everyone is caught up in their own world and are dying to talk to you about how much fun they are having, what their latest drama is and what their plans for the future are.

v The latest celebrity drama is another good topic. Everyone has an opinion on how a celebrity should or should not be behaving.

v Observing something that is you either like or find amusing in your environment. Maybe you see a guy with a 'power rangers' t-shirt, someone wearing a funky hat or notice your date has a cool pair of shoes.

THE BAD

Bad conversation topics are ones that make your date bored just talking about them. They don't inspire good or bad emotions in the person you are talking to and trying to attract.

The example everyone uses is 'the weather'. Hardly anything fun or interesting can come up when you are discussing the weather. It usually brings neither fun nor awkwardness just boredom.

Other similar dull topics to try and avoid are

Computers (unless you both met a web programming convention, talking about computers will not lead to great conversations)

The route you took to get to the date

Topics you find boring (Sometimes you are stuck for things to say and you revert to things you know about but find boring, do not do this!)

THE UGLY

These are things to steer well clear of. These topics are the worst things you could possibly bring up. If you want someone to think you are either creepy or weird or both, then bring up these terrible conversational subjects, otherwise, give them a wide berth.

ü Illness and death (nothing turns someone off more than illness and death. The mental image you form in your head is the opposite to being turned on when talking about illness and death)

ü Things in your life that affect you negatively (Do not use your date as a time to vent negative feelings. Talking about how crappy your job is, how your ex cheated on you and how depressed are not good things to talk about on your first few dates)

ü Creepy subjects like murder, stalkers and your obsession with death are (hopefully) obvious conversation topics to avoid

A couple of important things to remember when you are choosing conversation topics....

If you only use super exciting topics like clebrity drama etc. your date might think you are pretty one-dimensional with no depth to your personality. So it is okay from time to time to move onto topics that are more realted to the 2 of you.

While the list above of good, bad and ugly converation topics is a guideline, do not use it as rigid law. For instance, if your date arrives soaked wet, it's obviously cool to talk about the weather.

HOW TO GET A GUY TO NOTICE YOU

Want to know the secret of how to get a guy to notice you without dressing like a slut? It really isn’t that hard. Just use these easy to follow tips and before you know it guys will not only be noticing you, they’ll be chatting you up too.

BE POSITIVE

Hopefully this is obvious, but if you want to get noticed then you need to be positive. People are drawn to positivity, they want to be around people that make them feel good. People who are always bringing the vibe down are not people you want to be around. The best way to be positive is to make other people smile. Tell jokes, use compliments and smile to make other people feel good. This will make other people see you as a positive person and want to be around you.

LOOK YOUR BEST

If you're asking how to get a guy to notice you and you don't dress well then read on. It’s fine to wear clothes that show a bit of skin, but wearing trashy clothes will give guys the wrong idea. You don’t necessarily need to keep up to date fashion wise (as most guys have no idea about women’s fashion anyway) but you do need to make sure that your clothes fit your body type, go well together and are clean. On top of this, please remember that most guys like girls who don’t wear much make up, so if possible try to cut down on how much you apply.

BE SOCIAL

So many girls just hope that the man of their dreams will somehow discover them. This only happens in the movies folks. A much better way of getting a guy to notice you is to put yourself out there and be social. Find out what events the guys you like go to and go with your friends. It’s that easy. When you get there talk to other people besides just your friends and soon guys will start noticing you as a social, cool person.

IT’S OKAY TO FLIRT

When you meet other guys, it’s a good idea to flirt with them, just a little bit, even if you are not particularly attracted to them. This is great as the guys you flirt with may get attracted to you. Having lots of guys telling their friends that they are attracted to you will in turn make other guys (who you may not even know) attracted to you. Make sure you flirt in a very relaxed way, touch his arm, laugh and giggle a little more than you usually would and make sure to be complimentary of him.

BE A CHALLENGE

Guys like a challenge; they want to be with a girl who is desired by other men. They want to feel like they were the lucky one who got you. By being social and flirty you will make other men desire you. Having men desire you is probably the best way to get a guy to notice you.

IF HE STILL DOESN’T NOTICE YOU….

If you've followed the above advice on how to get a guy to notice you and he still hasn't noticed you then take the first step. So many girls are afraid to take the initiative when it comes to chatting up a guy. Instead they wait and wait and WAIT for the guy to come and talk to them. You don’t have to ask a guy out on a date, but by simply approaching him and making the effort to talk to him, you are massively increasing your chances of him liking you. Just make sure that when you do start talking to him, you are talking about something fun and flirty. There’s no point going up to the guy you like and asking him something mundane (like what the time is, etc). Chances are it won’t go anywhere. Instead you have to keep it fun and flirty.

HOW TO KEEP HIM INTERESTED

Girls who know how to keep him interested are girls you should be jealous of! Sometimes it can be quite frustrating keeping a guy you like attracted and interested in you. Luckily though you can use these great tips to keep him thinking about you (Tip No. 5 is the most important).

1. HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE

This is the second most important of any of the tips that you read here. Having your own life means doing activities and other things that don’t involve the guy you are with. These could be sports you do or even activities such as going out with your girls every fortnight for a meal together. This does not mean that you should exclude him. But you should not give up anything that’s important to you just to spend more time with your man. Spending every moment with your guy may show him that you love him, but if you spend every waking moment with him, he may well become bored with you. So remember that to keep a guy interested you need to have your own life.

2. MAKE SURE TO STAY ATTRACTIVE

The unfair thing in life is that most guys are primarily attracted to a girl’s good looks. Unfortunately there is nothing we can change about this. Luckily though, a guy who is dating you obviously finds you attractive. So it is important to remember to keep looking great.

3. LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE DESIRED

Sometimes a guy might start taking you for granted. Well this is the best time to show him that you are still desired by other guys. The next time you are both together and a guy starts flirting with you in front of your man, make sure you flirt back but don’t go any further than just flirting.

WARNING: There is a dark side to flirting with other guys. Sometimes you may be feeling a little insecure and then feel better after flirting with another guy. If you do this too much it can become a vicious cycle and your boyfriend may start to feel as if you don’t even respect or like him, so remember to use this technique sparingly.

4. LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN HIM

Hopefully this is obvious girls, but it’s important to let guys know that you like them through both your actions and words. So telling him how you feel about him is just as important as doing things for him that show him how you feel. Doing small things for him such as making his favourite meal or surprising him with tickets to the movie he was talking about are 2 ways to show him how to feel.

5. DON’T BE PREDICTABLE ALL THE TIME

If you want to know how to keep him interested in you, then the best thing that you can do is to use Tips No. 1-4 in conjunction with Tip No. 5. By not being predictable, your man will never know what to expect. He will always be wondering what’s coming next.
Note: Being unpredictable doesn’t mean that you should always be doing completely random things around your guy. Instead you should only be unpredictable whenever you feel that he may be losing interest.

HOW TO GET A GUY TO ASK YOU OUT

It can be frustrating not knowing how to get a guy to ask you out on a date. These dating tips will help get guys attracted to you and asking you out on dates. Just remember that getting a guy to ask you out can take time.

MAKE SURE HE’S ATTRACTED

The first step in this process is getting the guy attracted to you. There are loads of great Tips in the Top Dating Tips and Advice for Women section that teach you how to make guys attracted to you but they will take a while to read. For the now there are a few easy things to do to make him attracted to you.

ALWAYS LOOK YOUR BEST.

Make sure you flirt with him. Some women regard flirting as making cheeky/silly comments to guys. Others see it getting the guy laughing. Make sure that the next few times you are around him that you flirt.

Touch him when you are talking to him. Touching a guy does 2 things. It will make him attracted to you but more importantly it lets him know that you are like him in a subtle way. This is crucial, as guys fear rejection just as much as girls do. Men want to know that you like them before they are willing to take a leap of faith and ask you out.

THE POWER OF SUGGESTION

Many girls, in seeking dating advice for getting guys to like them, think that they should leave everything up to the man. This is a bad idea. If you want him to be your boyfriend then it requires some effort from you. You never have to ask him out. But you can make excuses to hang out. Saying things like, “Hey, have you seen that new movie?” or “Could you help me with this maths problem?” give you and him a chance to hang out and is definitely something you should aim to do together. Remember this isn’t you asking him out on a date. It’s how to get a guy to ask you out on a date without you risking being embarrassed.

IF ALL ELSE FAILS

If you really like this guy and he still hasn’t asked you out, then it’s time to take action. You either need a friend to subtly ask around if he likes you or you need to get someone to arrange for both of you to go to the same party or other event so you can ‘bump into each other’.

HOW TO MAKE A GUY WANT YOU

The short answer on how to make a guy want you is to be something that he can’t have. That’s sounds pretty easy but this article lays out the exact steps you need to take in order to be the girl he almost can’t have (obviously if he can’t have you altogether, then there’s not much point).

Before getting to the juicy bits, first it is important that you remember the importance of looking you best. There can be no excuses here. Just as we like well-groomed men, guys like well-groomed women. So before you start using any of these great tips, please make sure to take care of your appearance.

CAT STRING THEORY

A pick up artist named Mystery aka Erik von Markovik (from VH1’s The Pick Up Artist) came up with a theory for how guys should act around girls if they wanted to seduce them. He called it cat string theory because he likened it to a cat chasing a piece of string that it just cannot catch. At first, the cat is not very interested in this piece of string as it dangles in front of it. After a while though, the cat gets curious. Before long the cat is chasing the piece of string all over the room, leaping over obstacles and performing different tasks, just to get the string. The minute the cat gets the little piece of string, it’s interest wanes and it then goes to find something else to do.

This theory works just as well for girls as it does for guys. By being the girl who flirts with guys, the girl who is touchy-feely, the girl who is great fun to be around but is just slightly out of reach of the men who know her, she will become the object of their desires. Using cat string theory is exactly how to make a guy want you in the quickest time possible. When one guy eventually proves that he is willing to do whatever it takes just to be with you, you can stop using cat string theory……

Or should you? If you drop this attitude, after a while your man may start losing interest because now he knows he can have you whenever he wants. The best strategy is to start using cat string theory just a little bit from time to time to remind the guy you are with what a valuable commodity you are.

MAKING HIM FEEL GOOD

Being the girl that a guy can’t have can lead to guys getting frustrated and annoyed. This is not the ideal way how to make a guy want you. This is why it’s important that he doesn’t associate bad emotions with you. You can’t use cat string theory and treat a guy badly, it’s not healthy and chances are he will resent you. If you hope to date him in the future it’s very important that when he is around you, he experiences good, positive emotions. So make sure to flirt, banter, and crack jokes with him. This will amplify the effect of cat string theory and make him want you even more.

OUT OF THE BLUE

The last essential component of making a guy want you is to sporadically contact or get in touch with him in a way that doesn’t ask (or plead) for a response. So you could post on his facebook wall something like, “Bet you can’t lick your elbow” or “Just saw a girl with a moustache and fake boobs, weird!” These posts show guys who you could end up potentially dating that you have a sense of humour but are not desperate for attention.

HOW TO MAKE A GUY FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

Learning the secrets of how to make a guy fall in love with you is something every girl should know. By following these steps you will slowly wrap a man around your finger and have him totally captivated with you.

STEP 1: STOKE DESIRE BY APPEARING TO BE DESIRED

Just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean that you can’t have other guy friends and have a hectic social life at the same time.

Many girls make the mistake of believing that spending all their time with the guy they are dating will make him magically fall in love. This can work for a short while, but he will quickly grow bored of you. By having other guy friends to hang out with and having an active social life, your boyfriend will know that other guys desire and want you. It’s still important to spend time with your man but by remaining independent, your guy will see how lucky he is to have you.

STEP 2: BE HOT, THEN COLD, THEN HOT AGAIN

Just like we said in Step 1, guys get bored easily. Doing the same thing over and over again with him will make him lose interest. The best way to keep him wanting you is to alternate the amount of attention you give him. Start by keeping in contact and hanging out a lot over a week or two. Then, out of the blue, stop calling so much and stop hanging out for about a week without reason. This will drive your man wild. You will be on his mind constantly. Where are you, what are you doing, how come you suddenly stopped calling? Then when he thinks that you’ve forgotten about him, start calling and hanging out again. This is how to make a guy fall in love with you, but more importantly, this is how to make a guy constantly think about you.

STEP 3: DO NICE THINGS FOR YOUR MAN (OUT OF THE BLUE!)

This next bit is crucial. It’s very hard to make a man fall in love with you if he thinks you don’t care about him (which he might if you take Hot-Cold-Hot to an extreme degree). So you do need to do nice things for him. The key to making this powerful is to do it out of the blue and not ask for anything in return. So if you can see that he had tough day, make him dinner and give him a massage. Or perhaps if he just finished College/University or got a promotion, you could organize a surprise party for him. Just remember that it needs to seem out of the blue and you can’t ask for (or expect) anything in return.

HOW TO GET A GUY TO LIKE YOU

These dating tips will teach you how to get a guy to like you. It may take a while to remember all these tips, so it's a good idea to read this dating advice more than once.

BE YOUR BEST SELF

You may have gotten advice from your parents or friends to “be yourself”. This is good advice, but you don't just have to be yourself, you have to be your best self! We say this because everybody has good and bad traits, but we only want to display our best traits. You should never hide anything from a guy, but you should wait until you know him a bit better or you are already dating before telling him about your insecurities and worries. First impressions do count. So to give the best first impression to a guy, you have to make sure that you present your best self!

USE YOUR EYES

This can be a little tricky to get right. Nearly every man will tell you that he likes a woman with confidence. The best way to show him that you're confident is to be able to maintain eye contact when chatting with him or if he glances at you from across the room. The mistake some girls make is that they never break eye contact with the guy. Staring at the man nonstop will make you seem like a stalker. This is not attractive in any way. It will send him running in the opposite direction. So get comfortable with holding eye contact with guys you like but just remember, no staring!

LOOK GOOD!

Hopefully, this goes without saying, guys do like girls who look good and dress well. So if you need to wear makeup to cover any blemishes or you like to use eye makeup to draw attention to your eyes then use it, but do remember that the less you can possibly wear and still look good the better. The same goes for clothes and shoes. Obviously it's better to keep up to date fashion wise, but more importantly wear clothes that accent the best parts of your body. Just remember 99% of guys don't know the latest trends in women's fashion. So if you're stuck, it's fine to wear something that's two years old as long as it fits you well. The same goes for shoes.

FLIRT

Knowing how to flirt is crucial when learning how to get a guy to like you. The art of flirting is saying something mean but meaning something nice. Examples are, “I thought that I should come over and talk to you as you seem kind a shy” or “I thought I should come over and give you some fashion advice, that belt doesn't match your shoes.” The key to flirting is to make sure that you have a smile on your face when you say the flirting line. If you seem serious then you will only offend people. Remember that flirting is supposed to be fun!

SMILE

Quite a lot of girls, when trying to figure out how to get a guy to like you are afraid that the guy will somehow find out that you like him and that this would somehow lead to him not liking you. This often leads girls to stop smiling or worse even seem a little serious and withdrawn when around the guy they like. This is not attractive to men. Instead when you are around him you need to smile and be in a good mood. This way he will associate happiness and positive emotions with being around you, so smile.

DON'T CONFUSE FRIENDSHIP WITH ATTRACTION

Just because you spend a lot of time with the boy you like doesn't mean necessarily that he is attracted to you. The same is true in situations where a guy tells you his intimate secrets. He may just see you as a friend and perhaps not someone he is attracted to. However if he is very touchy-feely with you and you are always joking with each other and he makes prolonged eye contact with you, then you can be sure he is attracted to you. Check out how to tell if a guy likes you and signs he is attracted to you for more tips reading the signs of attraction.

HOW TO TURN A GUY ON

Once you know how to turn a guy on, you will never have to worry about attracting guys ever again. There are a few subtle things you must do to turn a guy on, that don’t always require you to be very sexual. The single most important factor that girls forget when it comes to turning on men is anticipation.

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Most girls think that men get turned on by what they see. This is true to a degree. That’s obviously why they like porn so much! However most girls take this to an extreme. They think that the only way to turn a guy on is by dressing slutty or wearing a lot of make up. You may turn a guy on, but that is not necessarily going to make him want, need, crave and lust after you.

Instead if you really want to turn a guy on and have him lust after you and want to be with you, then you need to create anticipation. But how to do this?

There are a few different ways to create anticipation to turn a guy on:

Give him a taste, but don’t give him too much. So the next time you are hanging out with your guy, give him a kiss or a massage or something semi-sexual that he likes but only give him a taste. Don’t do it for too long, then just back off a little bit. This will drive him crazy and will make him want more. The more he works for you, the more he will want you and the more turned on he will get at the thought of you.

Create barriers. This is really important. Guys think of themselves as warriors, they love when they feel as if they have accomplished or achieved something. They may like things being handed to them on a plate, but the don’t really appreciate something that they get for free. They prefer things that they have to work for.

So the next time he ask if you want to hang out, say, “That would be awesome, I’d love to, but I’m really busy for the next few days with some things I have to take care of, Do you want to hang out maybe later in the week?” By saying yes, but putting barriers in the way, you will create anticipation and make him work for you.

BUT HOW DOES CREATING ANTICIPATION AND PUTTING UP BARRIERS ANSWER MY QUESTION OF HOW TO TURN A GUY ON?

By doing these two things you will constantly be on his mind. He will become more and more attracted and will start getting turned on just by the thought of you, especially if you combine these two with the third and most important ingredient:

MAKING REPEATED PHYSICAL CONTACT

This doesn’t mean that you need to stroke his leg, but instead it means that you need make sure you are touching him regularly (especially when you are both having a good time together) so that he associates good feelings with you.

Once you combine all three, men won’t be able to help themselves from getting turned on just from thinking of you.

ROMANTIC DATING TIPS

10 ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO FOR YOUR LOVED ONE

*Just a quick note to you guys and girls before using these romantic dating tips: make sure that both of you are attracted to each other before using any of the following dating advice.

If a girl or guy is already attracted to you and then you do something romantic, you can be happy in the fact that he or she will greatly appreciate it.

However if the guy or girl that you are doing something romantic for is not even attracted to you, then you shouldn't expect that doing something romantic will make them fall in love with you.

The first 4 romantic dating tips will help get you up to speed with why you need romance when dating and why it should be a spice and not the main course to any relationship. Treat these as general guidelines. The next 6 tips are specific romantic ideas to spice up your love life.

10 ROMANTIC DATING TIPS

1. It's the thought that counts. Being romantic does not necessarily equate to how much money you spend. So if you think that buying someone an expensive necklace or even a car is romantic then think again.

But giving someone a present, no matter how cheap or small that shows you care and put some thought in are far more romantic. So buying a girl one of her favorite flowers is more romantic that buying 12 roses. Or sourcing and buying a guy an out of print book is far more romantic than buying him a crate of beer.

Remember: It's the thought that counts

2. Share experiences. One the easiest and best romantic dating tips anyone can give you is to share experiences with your loved one. Especially if those experiences are not something you would regularly do as a couple (so this cuts out watching TV together!).

Things you can do range from going on a long holiday together to even going for a long walk. The two main points to keep in mind are that you need to do something together and you must do something you normally don't do.

3. Be Spontaneous. Being spontaneous is a crucial romantic dating tip. It is expected that you will be romantic for St. Valentine's Day, so everybody is. What is far more romantic is preparing your boyfriend's or girlfriend's favorite meal for them before they arrive home after a hard days work. Or organizing a party or short holiday and surprising them with it.

4. Both men and women prefer to experience varying emotions in a relationship: more varied emotions make for a more fulfilling relationship. So try to remember that when injecting romance into a relationship, it is not the only thing you should be doing. You need to keep the relationship exciting and interesting, not just romantic.

5. Organize a trip to a fun fair or an amusement park together, preferably in the evening. Not only are fun fairs/amusement parks romantic but you both get to experience a range of emotions from fear (ghost house) to excitement (rollercoaster).

6. Cook your partner their favorite meal when you know that they're stressed or tired. Not only is this romantic, but it shows that you can care for them and want to make them feel better.

7. Indulge in their favorite activities or interests. Nothing says, "I care" as much as getting involved in your partner's favorite activity. While this may be seen as an unorthodox romantic dating tip, it is still very romantic. It shows your boyfriend or girlfriend that you actually do care about their interests (even if you don't find them as interesting as they do).

8. Organize a surprise birthday for them. Going through all the effort to contact your significant other's friends and family for a party in their honor will show them how much you care about them.

9. Tell each other how you felt when you first saw each other.

10. Give them a massage (especially if they are stressed). Just like romantic dating tip 6 this shows them that you care about how they feel and don't like seeing them worry.

This list of romantic things to do will set you up on the right path to becoming more romantic. Just keep in mind points 1- 4.

v You need to vary what you do in a relationship.

v You need to be spontaneous.

v You need to remember that it's the thought that counts.

v You need to remember that shared experiences are best.

SIGNS HE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU

If you've already read have been reading this Top Dating Tip and Love Making, you should have a decent idea of when he is attracted to you for more than your looks. Maybe that “LOVE TIP” left you wondering and wanting certainty over whether or not he likes you for sure. Well there are more signs....What are the signs he is attracted to you? How can you tell if he really likes you?

Here are 8 more signs that he is attracted to you. Just keep in mind that the major signs you should look out for are the ones mentioned in the in the first stage of this write up. These following signs are indicators that he likes you, but, do not take them as seriously as the ones in the previous page

BUZZ!

Does he talk about you when you are not around. Maybe he asked your friends about you, what you like and what you do for fun. If you are on his mind, then he can't help but talk about you to those around him. It's one of the biggest signs he is attracted to you to look out for!

TOUCHY-FEELY!

When you 2 are together, does he touch you more than you would consider 'normal' for 2 friends? Does he touch your hand, legs, neck or back? These are major signs that he likes you.

But maybe he touches you on the elbow when he's making a point. This is not a big sign that he likes you. A lot of people do this when they are just chatting to someone platonically. So learn to distinguish between the two.

LETS HANG!

Does he always try to arrange for you two to hang out? Does he send text messages, leave messages on your answering machine, post on your facebook wall? If he does it's obvious that he wants to spend more time together and is a sign he is attracted to you.

ATTENTION GRABBER!

Does he try to grab your attention a lot. Does he try and crack funny jokes when you are close to him and watch for your reaction? Guys often try to use humour to attract girls so if you notice him cracking more jokes than you would consider normal, take it as a sign that he likes you.

However, sometimes the guy may happen to be the joker of the group and crack a lot of jokes anyway to make you take this into consideration.

ALL EARS!

Is he hanging on your every word? Does he listen intently when you are talking? If he does then it is a sign that he is attracted to you.

But if he seems to get distracted easily or worse, wander off when you are talking, then you should take it as a sign that he is not that attracted to you.

BUG EYES!

This can be a tricky one. If you can see that his pupils dialate (that means, does the black part/centre of the eye get bigger) when he's talking to you?

If they do noticeably get bigger then you can take it as a sign that he is attracted to you. But make sure you take other factors into account. It could be darker by where you are sitting or standing so his pupils may dialate becasue he is trying to get more light into his eye (not because he is necessarily attracted to you (Phew! who would have thought this would become a science class!)

ALL SMILES!

Does he smile at you when you are together? Does he smile when you walk into a room? If he does then it is a good sign, but unfortunately can sometimes be a little misleading.

If he is already in a good mood or is a naturally smiley person, then you should discount this sign. But if it normally takes a lot for him to smile, then you should definitely treat this as a good sign.

BEST FOOT FORWARD!

You may still be looking for signs he is attracted to you. If you are both hanging out (especially with other people) and his feet are pointing towards you, it is a sign that he likes you.

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These 8 signs that he is attracted to you are helpful to look out for when trying to figure out whether or not he really likes you. The first 5, Buzz!, Touchy-Feely!, Lets Hang!, Attention Grabber! and All Ears! are major signs that he is attracted to you. The last 3, Bug Eyes!, All Smiles! and Best Foor Forward! are very minor signs that he likes you.

In other words, treat the first 5 as serious indicators that he likes you and the last 3 and not so serious signs he likes you.

SECRETE DATING TIPS FOR GIRLS

Getting that really great guy takes work! Luckily this dating Tips for girls article is here to help you every step of the way.

Before you start reading all these dating tips, be warned! I'm not going to hold your hand and tell you that everything is going to be okay. You need to take responsibility for improving your dating life. The dating advice you are about to read sounds great, but if you are not willing to put in the effort required to make it work, then you are going to find it pretty tough to get the guy you want!

Phew, I didn't mean to sound harsh there, but please try to remember that this takes work! Reading dating tips online is one thing but putting them into action is another.

OK, here we go....

1. BE YOUR BEST SELF

What?

If you really want to get a great guy, my top dating tip for you is to be your best self. That means you can't pretend to be someone else or pretend you are someone you are not.

A lot of the dating advice I've found when researching this article tell girls to be yourself. That is good advice, but if I was being myself, I would look terrible, not go out much and I wouldn't get many chances with guys.

Instead you need to be your best self. That means you need to maximize your appearance AND how you act. So if you are hoping to meet a guy tonight, make sure you are clean, dressed well and smell nice. It also means that you do not bring negativity to the people you are interacting with.

It's cool to be in a bad mood from time to time, but if you are always ruining other people's nights with your negativity, then you need to start thinking about how you are acting.

So the most important of all these dating tips for girls is to be your best self, not someone you think you should be, which brings us to....

2. DO NOT CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANYONE

So you met a great guy, but you find yourself constantly asking yourself, "Is he attracted to me"? You just can't read the signs properly and don't know if he really likes you or not.

So to try and get him to like you, you tell him that you like what he likes, only want to do what he wants to do and only hang out when he wants to hang out (even if you never actually want to do any of these things).

Is this you? Have you ever acted like this when trying to win a guy over?

Let me be straight up:

Following a man's every whim will drive him away

Having your own life will attract him to you

It may sound counter intuitive, but this is highly attractive to men. He will see his time spent with you as precious and will value it more if you do not change yourself for him.

SIDENOTE: It's perfectly fine to make exceptions every once in a while. But remember that bending to his every whim will drive him away.

3. HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE

You may have noticed in point 2 that you need to have other things to do in your life besides just hanging out with your guy.

Having your own life is really key to this. You need to have other things to do for 2 reasons:

Ø It makes you more attractive in his eyes.

Ø It keeps you occupied to stop you from obsessing over the guy you want.

So doing things like going to the gym, playing sports, going clubbing or going on weekend trips with the girls are great ways to have your own life.

The purpose of theses 3 dating tips for girls is to ensure that you do not come off as desperate. Think of them as the foundation. My next book is fantastic and contains more dating tips for girls and it looks specifically at the important stuff such as flirting and things you can do to make him want you more, even when you are already in a relationship

HOW TO TELL IF A GUY LIKES YOU

Scared of rejection? Knowing how to tell if a guy likes you will pretty much erase that fear. There are a few subtle and not so subtle things that guys will do if they like you.

SPENDING TIME WITH YOU

The most obvious and least subtle hint that a guy can give you if he likes you is that he always wants to spend time with you. Obviously you can rule out time he spends with you that is not his choosing. So if he has a project for school or for work that he has to compete with you then don't take it as a sign that he is attracted to you. Instead you need to look out for times when he CHOOSES to hang out with you. For example maybe he rings or texts quite often to hang out. Or perhaps he leaves messages on your Facebook or MySpace suggesting you do something together like go to the movies or go bowling or maybe he’s even read these cool date ideas.

HE IS ALWAYS LOOKING AT YOU

Maybe you are in class together, you work together or perhaps you both go to the same gym. If you
notice him glancing over towards you for no reason more than twice, then you can be pretty sure that he likes you. But always remember that perhaps he's looking at the person sitting beside you…ouch!

IS HE TOUCHY-FEELY

Guys who like you will touch you quite a bit if they like you. So if you are hanging out together, one way how to tell if a guy likes you, is if he touches you a lot. Especially in intimate places. So if he's touching you on the small of your back or is touching your hands or legs a lot you can take it as a sign that he is attracted to you. Especially if he is more touchy-feely when you are alone together.

DOES HE TEASE YOU?!

This one might sound a little out there, but men, especially confident guys tend to tease girls or test girls to see if they are confident in themselves and like to flirt. They'll say silly things such as, I like your coat, did your mom by it for you! Or they might say something like, I'm guessing you're not very good at sports! Although these things may sound a little harsh or mean, they are not intended to be mean. Instead these things a guy will do if he likes you and wants to start flirting with you. The best thing you can do is to flirt back and tease him!

IS HE SHY/AWKWARD?

So all the previous examples have been situations where a guy will outwardly express or demonstrate that he likes you. However, there is a situation that is almost the complete opposite to the above examples. A lot of girls don't realize that although some men are very confident, they can also be extremely shy around girls. As a result they often get very awkward when they are around girls that they like or they are attracted to. So if there is a very confident guy that's always joking with his friends and laughing and messing, but when he's around you is very quiet and shy and even a little awkward, then you can take it as a sign that he likes you, but is a little intimidated by you.

HOW TO PLEASE YOUR MAN

You think you know how to please your man? There are some obvious and some not so obvious techniques and methods you can use to keep your man smiling and desiring you.

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TAKE CONTROL IN THE BEDROOM

It’s such nice feeling to have a man you are attracted to (or dating) want to rip your clothes off in the bedroom. Guys feel exactly the same; they would love for a girl they are dating to be overcome with lust and horniness for them. It makes them feel desired. So the next time you get home together, drag him into the bedroom, throw him on the bed and rip his clothes off.

TRY NEW THINGS IN THE BEDROOM

Guys don’t necessarily want a pornstar in the bedroom. However they do want variation. This means that if he is used to plain missionary, you should take the initiative and change it up in the bedroom. Even picking up a book on sexual techniques in your local shop is a good idea if you aren’t sure where to start.

DRESS SEXY

Men are visual creatures (that’s why they like porn so much), so dressing sexy is a great way to please your man. Remember that different men find different things sexy. Some guys may like to see you in a tiny skirt and heels while others may want to see you in a tight pair of trousers and a flowing blouse. The secret is asking. You can be quite blatant. Just ask him what he thinks would look most sexy on you and then go and find it.

ALLOW HIM HIS FREEDOM

Wondering what he is getting up to on his weekend in Vegas with ‘the boys’ is a nerve wrecking experience. But it is far better than not allowing him to go in the first place. Preventing him from doing things could lead him to feeling bitter at how you are treating him. As tough as it can be sometimes, the rewards of allowing your boyfriend or husband to do things most others would not far outweigh what happens when you become hyper controlling.

KEEP HIM ATTRACTED

This last one might not spring easily to mind but keeping your boy attracted is super important when it comes to pleasing him. Guys are only truly happy to be with girls that they are completely attracted to. They don’t want to be with girls that don’t turn them on. There are a few simple things you can do to make sure he desires you and stays attracted..

I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND

Want to say, “I love my boyfriend”? Here are 15 reasons why...

I love him because he makes me feel great when he’s around.

I love him because he has a wonderful smile.

I love him because he treats me well.

I love him because he does nice things for me.

I love my man because he make other girls jealous of me.

I love my man because he picks me up when I’m feeling down.

I love my man because he doesn’t let other people treat me badly.

I love my man because he makes me laugh.

I love my man because he helps me with things I find difficult.

I love my guy because he is romantic.

I love my guy because he dresses well.

I love my guy because he wears nice cologne.

I love my man because he doesn’t get angry.

I love my boyfriend because he makes me feel comfortable when I feel awkward.

I love my honey because he makes me feel warm and fuzzy.

So there are fifteen reasons why you might love your boyfriend. However, maybe you need to show him that you care....

HERE ARE SOME SIMPLE THINGS YOU CAN DO TO SHOW YOUR BOYFRIEND THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HIM.

1. When he is sad or upset, do something nice for him, like making him his favorite meal and dessert to pick him up.

2. If you notice that your man is looking a bit down or sad, then he probably is. Unfortunately though, most guys don’t really like talking about their feelings, so getting him to open up may be tricky. Instead, what you can do is give him a hug and tell him how much you care about him. Even if he doesn’t open up after this, he will at least know that you are there for him.

3. Surprise him. You might not think it, but guys like surprises as much as girls do. The next time you want to show him how much you care, do something out of the blue, like bringing him to the movies or to see his favorite sports team. This is guaranteed to put a smile on his face and let him know how much you care.

HOW TO KISS - WHY LEARNING TO BE A GOOD KISSER IS CRUCIAL

Learning how to kiss someone properly can be a minefield. They might just be a friend or they could be someone you are romantically involved with. No matter what the situation, it's important to kiss the right way. These great kissing tips will help make every kiss a memorable one.

PRE-KISSING TIPS

Before launching straight into the different kissing techniques, there are some important prerequisites to take care of.

The first (and hopefully obvious) issue you must take care of is proper hygiene. Nobody wants to kiss or French kiss someone who has bad breath, bad teeth or general bad hygiene (such as gingivitis, body odor etc.). Ask yourself, "Would I want to kiss someone if they had bad breath, bad teeth or just general bad hygiene?" Most likely not.

Ø So if you have bad breath, try mouthwash as well as brushing your teeth regularly. If it still doesn't improve, then go see a dentist.

Ø If you have discolored teeth, try a teeth-whitening product. If that still doesn't work, then go to the dentist.

Ø As for you your general hygiene, I hope this doesn't have to be said, but make sure to shower, wear deodorant and wear clean clothes.

Once you have your hygiene taken care of, it's important to make sure you have kissable lips. That means no chapped or dry lips. The simple solution: Lip Balm. Pretty simple but most people don't want to kiss dry and/or chapped lips.

DON'T FORGET TO TOUCH

This is a crucial piece of information when learning how to kiss! Kissing someone at the end of the date can be very awkward, especially if there has been no contact between you and your date.

Does this mean you should be groping your date throughout your interaction? Hell No! (Do not act or touch anyone inappropiately. Ever!)

Instead you should make sure to touch them on the arm at least a couple of times when talking throughout the date. If she likes that then you can graduate to touching her more intimately, such as on the leg or even brushing a loose strand of hair from her face.

The key when learning how to kiss is to keep it gradual and natural. If he/she is comfortable with you touching them, then kissing them will be a lot easier.

TRY TO KISS SOMEWHERE PRIVATE (ESPECIALLY IF IT'S THE FIRST KISS)

When going for the first kiss, one or both of you may be nervous. As a result, either you or your partner may not want other people to see you kissing.

This may be the case in a crowded bar or at a party. The best thing to do in these situations is to go somewhere private. All you need is a small excuse, like, "Let's go somewhere a little more private", and then you can both go to a quieter room.

This will ensure that you have the highest chance possible that your partner will reciprocate if you go in for a kiss.

THE KISS

All the information above will help you be as prepared as possible before kissing someone. Now comes the actual how to kiss part.

As previously stated you need to have a physical dialogue (touching) in progress with the person before actually going to kiss them. When you do and are ready to kiss them you need to do a few important things.

v You need to slow down the pace of the interaction. So talk slower, move slower and get closer to the guy or girl you want to kiss.

v As you are doing this, you need to make sure you are giving sustained eye contact.

v While you are sustaining eye contact, you need to glance at their lips (this will show them your intentions).

v If you are doing all this and the person you intend to kiss is not moving away, then you can move your head towards theirs and try to kiss their lips.

As you move your head towards theirs, three things can happen:

They move towards you to kiss you.
The stay still.
They move away.

Reading this how to kiss article, it's important to remember the most crucial thing is to respect other people and their boundaries. If someone does not want to kiss you and they move away (as explained in number 3), then do not force yourself on them (or anyone for that matter).

In case #1 and #2 they do want to kiss you. So move your head towards theirs. You may have to tilt/angle your head slightly so that your noses don't prevent you from kissing each other's lips.

HOW TO MAKE A GUY JEALOUS

Learning how to make a guy jealous can be like walking on thin ice. You may get to the other side and have a guy massively attracted to you. But you also may very suddenly fall through the ice and lose everything! When you make a guy jealous it can make him desire you more than you could imagine or it could make him feel hurt, angry and resentful.

This article will discuss both the good types of jealousy and the bad types of jealousy that you can make a man feel. The key to making a guy jealous without making him angry is to make sure that you don’t appear to be actively making him jealous. It has to appear as ‘not your fault’. Men like to know where they stand in a relationship, it’s in their nature. Jealously will make a man feel uncertain about where he stands in a relationship. He will go to great lengths to rectify this situation and in the process will become far more attracted to you.

JUST TALKING TO A FRIEND

Sure, you could just start blatantly flirting with other guys in front of him. But chances are, he will know what you are up to. A better way to do this is to tell him that you are just going to say “Hi” to your friend, that you will be back in a minute. When you go over to him, say hi, start flirting him, maybe even show him a picture on your phone. This may think get your man thinking that you are giving this other guy your number. When you get back to your boyfriend, tell him that the other guy was pretty touchy feely, then say nothing else. Saying something like, “He was very touchy-feely” isn’t exactly saying sorry, but lets your man know that you are desired by other guys, which leads us to the next tip…

SO MANY GUYS, IT MAKES ME ANGRY

Instead of making it obvious that there are guys vying for your attention, tell your man that it makes you angry that you are never sure whether or not your guy friends are trying to get with you or not. This is one of the simpliest ways how to make a guy jealous.

Make sure that you hang out with these guys a lot, that way, he’ll never be totally sure about what’s going on .

FACEBOOK IS YOUR FRIEND

If your man is always on facebook, then you can use this great tool tool to make him feel jealous. By updating your status with ‘bait for guys’ you’ll attract other guys to comment on your profile.

The rule is use comments that will grab guy’s attention. Post a link to an article that objectifies women, such as a Top 100 hottest women list and comment on it, about how terrible it is. This will grab guy’s attention and make them feel compelled to comment on it. Having guys comment on your facebook profile will certainly make him feel jealous, especially if you are both already in a relationship as these comments will be constantly appearing on his homepage “feed”.

HOW TO SEXUALLY SATISFY YOUR MAN ALWAYS

VARIATION
If you only ever have sex at night, in the bedroom or at the same time everyday, then things are going to get boring fast.

SIGNS OF A CHEATING BOYFRIEND

Are you loosing trust in your man? Use these 5 signs of a cheating boyfriend to uncover the truth and discover if your guy is seeing other girls.

1. LACK OF CLOSENESS

If you suspect that your man is cheating, then a lack of intimacy is the number one sign of infidelity. Dividing his attention between you and other women will obviously mean less time for him to be intimate with you. You will notice that he is not as touchy-feely as before.

2. PHONE PROBLEMS

When a guy is unfaithful, he doesn’t want to get caught by you. This will lead him to be very protective of his phone. He doesn’t want to let you near it in case you find out what’s going on.

Has he suddenly started using a pin number to lock his phone?

Does he get flustered or go to another room when he gets phone calls in your presence?

Does he send you to voicemail a lot instead of answering your calls?

These are clear cut signs of a cheating boyfriend. You may want to find out why he is being so protective of his phone.

3. CHEATERS SPEND LESS TIME WITH YOU

Is he spending less and less time with you without reason? If your boyfriend is two-timing you then spending less time with you than usual with no real excuse is a solid indicator of cheating. Sometimes people have to work late or study into the night for school or college. These are real excuses. Saying something like, “I was hanging out with friends again” is not a proper excuse.

4. UNFAITHFUL MEN AND THEIR CLOTHES

One of the most obvious signs of a cheating boyfriend is if he has a preoccupation with cleaning his clothes. Why would your boyfriend suddenly start keeping his clothes very clean? Simple: If your boyfriend is cheating on you with someone else, he will be afraid that her perfume or make up will be left on his clothes. Is your boyfriend meticulous about washing his clothes? Has he started doing his own laundry?

As well as keeping his clothes very clean, has your man started buying new and trendy clothes (to impress his new girl)?

5. SHOWER, SHOWER AND SHOWER SOME MORE

One of the easiest signs of a cheating boyfriend to spot is the number of showers he has and the time when he takes them. If your boyfriend always takes a shower the minute he arrives through the door, then he has something to hide. If he hadn’t just been playing sports, why else would he need a shower? Chances are that he is having an affair with someone else.

6. GETS EXTREMELY DEFENSIVE WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT CHEATING

If he has nothing to hide, then he won’t be defensive. But if he is angry that you brought it up and tries to change the subject or accuses you of cheating, then you may be talking to an unfaithful boyfriend.

7. COMPUTER SHY

If your man is seeing someone else then he may be in contact with her online. Obviously he won’t want you to see what he is up to. But is he more protective of what he does online than normal? Does he quickly close windows or files on the computer as you walk over to him. Has he changed the passwords on his computer all of a sudden?

HOW TO GET HIM BACK

These steps will teach you how to get him back, but be warned: they are sneaky!

A lot of people who have split up with their boyfriend find that at first they can become quite emotional and sometimes even a little irrational. So it’s important to make sure to take a few days to relax and take care of priority number 1, YOU!

It’s important not to bottle up your emotions so take a few days until you are a little more peaceful before using these tips to get him back....

RULE 1: MEN VALUE WHAT THEY CAN’T HAVE

Men are programmed to chase a prize, climb the highest hills and basically strive for what they can’t have.

WHY DID TIGER WOODS, THE BEST GOLFER IN THE WORLD WHO HAD EVERYTHING HE EVER WANTED IN THE WORLD CHEAT ON HIS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL, SWEDISH WIFE?

He had it all but he wanted more. He is the just like every other guy, he wants what he can’t have. Then when he has what he wants, he wants more. Crazy, huh? Well, that’s guys for you.

How does this apply to you?

This is the most important part of learning how to get him back. You need to be the girl that your man almost can’t have. So instead of begging or pleading or hoping that he’ll take you back, you need to start making him believe that you are not really that bothered that you broke up. Why? Because you are the prize. You are someone that your man almost can’t have.

Examples of this would be not replying immediately to his texts or phone calls and not jumping at any chance you have to hang out with him. So if he says that you should both hang out sometime, just say, “Sounds good, but I’m busy for the next while.” By saying yes and no in the same sentence will confuse him but will also make him value you a whole lot more.

RULE 2: STAY ON HIS MIND

While trying to get your man back, you definitely want to be someone that he almost can’t have but this doesn’t mean that you should be totally elusive. In order to get you guy back you have to stay in his mind and in his consciousness.

How do you do this........

To stay on his mind, you need to do a few things. You shouldn’t contact him much yourself, but you should make sure that whenever your friends are with him, they mention you (make sure that they don’t say something obvious like, “she’s doing awesome”, etc. but instead just mention that you went to a party.)

Things you can do to stay on his mind are:

Stay active on facebook.

Make sure you hang out with friends (especially if they are mutual friends of you and your ex).

Don’t say bad things about him (don’t say that you miss him like crazy to people, but make sure that you don’t say negative things about him)

HOW TO CATCH A CHEATING BOYFRIEND

This system on how to catch a cheating boyfriend is down and dirty. It’s most definitely not for the faint hearted.

The most important thing you can do to catch him is make sure he doesn’t know that you are trying to catch him. There is a lot of garbage out there that says you should have a chat with your man or that you should tell him that you believe in honesty and integrity. This crap doesn’t work. If your boyfriend is cheating on you, then he is a liar, with no honesty and integrity. If he is sneaking around behind your back, trying not to get caught, why would he tell you to your face.

APPEARING AS IF ‘ALL IS NORMAL’

This first step when learing how to catch a cheating boyfriend is the most important. If a guy knows that you are trying to catch him cheating, then he will be on his guard and be extra careful not to get caught. But if knows nothing of what you’re doing, then he will become lazy and eventually slip up letting you catch him being unfaithful. So this means not confronting him or acting really jealous as doing so will get his defences up. So act as if all is well.

CHECK HIS PHONE WHEN HE IS NOT AROUND

When your man is in the shower, quickly check his phone to see who he is texting and talking to. Make sure to check the inbox and outbox, calls made and calls received. If you find nothing then all may be fine, but often cheating boyfriends use guys names instead of girls to cover up their texts. Check the first ten to twenty texts, you may find that his friend ‘John’ is calling him baby and using ‘x’ a lot. Hopefully this is obvious, but ‘John’ is clearly a girl. Write down the number and so you can get a girlfriend to call and see who it is.

CHECK HIS COMPUTER

Girls sometimes get very jealous when their man receives posts on his facebook wall from other admiring girls. These are nothing to worry about. It’s the private posts that should worry you. Preferably find out his e-mail password as private facebook messages get sent (in full) to his email. That way you can read the messages he gets from other girls. Also try and find out his facebook password so you can check the messages he sends to other girls.

SET A TRAP

If you want to catch your boyfriend cheating, a great technique to use is to set a ‘girl trap’. Get one of your cute friends to text him or get in touch privately out of the blue. Get her to say something pretty innocent like, “Hey hot stuff, what are you up to for the weekend?” How he responds is how he truly feels about you. If he says, “Nothing, let’s catch up, but we need to be discrete” then you have a cheater on your hands. If he tells you about the message, then chances are you have a faithful man on your hands.

DATING ADVICE FOR WOMEN

What constantly surprises me is the lack of effort people put into their dating lives (both men and women). They will spend 12-14 years in school and 4 years in college to get a good job, but they will invest almost no time in improving their love lives.

Crazy, huh? A recent relationship survey showed that to most women, their husband or partner is more important to them than their job. Yet they have spent almost no time discovering the important things to catch and keep a great man:

Ø What it is that attracts a great guy.

Ø How keep him faithful.

Ø How to get him to invest in a relationship.

Think about that for a minute. When was the last time you sat down and figured out what you needed to do to find and keep a man that was attractive, charming and someone you would like to introduce to your friends?

Most single girls answered that they just needed to be a little thinner, dress a little better or be in better shape. This is great advice if you are just looking for a man who wants sex and doesn't particularly care about you or how you feel.

But what about finding a man that does care about you? A man that wants to spend time with you. A man that doesn't want the date to end. A man that feels a pang of jealousy when he sees you with anyone but him?

This is where good looks will not help you. He may pretend that he likes you just so he can get you into bed one more time. But what about the guy who isn't only concerned with hanging out after 9pm and getting a blow job? What about the guy who just wants to spend time with you?

Like I said before, this is where your looks will not help you. But what you do and say will.

Because most women never invest the time and energy into learning what it is that captivates a man and makes him crave you, there are only a few that truly know the secret of catching and keeping a man's heart.

I once met a girl that knew how to capture a man's heart. She was amazing. Everytime I saw her, I felt a little dizzy. Every kiss felt better than the last. And every time we had sex, I was in heaven.

Needless to say, when she left me I was truly heartbroken. It's been over 2 years and I still haven't met anyone that comes close to her.

As a way to get over her, I have decided to write these dating tips for women based on how she acted around me, to help give you some 'super powers' for attracting the man of your dreams.

Below you'll find some of the dating advice that guests have written for the site. It's certainly nowhere near as helpful as the information that you'll find in the book, but hopefully you'll be able to find some useful tips in there.

DATING ADVICE BY VARIOUS GUESTS OF REAL-DATING-TIPS.COM

Let's be real for a minute. There is not one perfect piece of dating advice for women to fix your love life and find the man of your dreams. Luckily there are some really great things you can start doing now to increase you success with men and give yourself the best possible chance of finding the man of your dreams.

NOT JUST ADVICE FOR ATTRACTING MEN, BUT GETTING INTO GREAT, LONG- LASTING RELATIONSHIPS WITH GUYS TOO.

At the end of this page there are more articles with dating advice for women, but for now there is some core information that you always need to keep in mind when either flirting and chatting with guys or when you are in a relationship with them.

1. GET A LIFE

What does this mean exactly? Make sure you take care of your life and your needs first. Make sure that your health, job/school and other relationships are in order.

Guys may be attracted to you because of your looks, which can be great, but if the rest of your life is a train wreck then any potential relationship will not last.

On top of this, you will have other things going on in your life, which leads us to...

2. DO NOT DROP ANYTHING FOR A GUY

So you met the guy of your dreams last weekend. Now he wants to hang out on Wednesday evening. But you already organized to go for drinks with the girls on Wednesday evening. You may want to ditch the girls and go on a date with this guy. But and there is a big but....

Dropping everything for a guy is not attractive. Guys may appreciate it for a date or two. But they will quickly grow bored of you because you just become like every other girl to him. This is why having an active social life is so important. This is a really conuter-intuitive bit of dating advice for women, but have fatih, it works! Remember how you really wanted that one guy because you could never get his full attention? He was a challenge....

3. BE A CHALLENGE

Guys like girls that they have to chase after. They value girls they have to catch more than pushovers.

Imagine the Super Bowl (strange analogy, but please listen). It's the ultimate prize for a football player. They spend all of high school and college just to have the chance to make a team that might never even make it to the Super Bowl. It's incredibly tough and 99.99% of football players never make it. But for the ones that do, it's the ultimate prize. They value it because it's a challenge. They don't value football socks as much because you can get them in a shop or borrow them.

You need to be the Super Bowl, not just another pair of stinky football socks, lol!

So in the dating world, that means you have to make men work hard to win you over. You need to be a challenge and we all know that men love challenges

4. HAVE STANDARDS

Being a challenge is one thing, but having standards is another. Just because a guy is cute, rich, captain of his high school football team or has a great job does not mean you should start dating him.

Yes you may be attracted to him and enjoy flirting with him, but if you know he is a player, then your best bet is to stay away unless you are happy to be tossed aside for the next girl he wants.

There are two things you need to do.

First does he respect you? Is he the kind of guy that will treat you properly or will he just tell his friends about every detail?

Then you will probably be wondering is her attracted to you. Check out the article for some great tips to know the signs to look out for if he is attracted to you.

5. DO NOT TREAT HIM AS YOUR EMOTIONAL SPONGE*

Maybe you had a bad day at work or had a fight with your family. The most unattractive thing you can do is to pour out all your feelings thinking it will get the guy you want.

Sure guys are logical and want to fix things. But at the start of a relationship, unloading all your problems onto a guy is not smart. It smells of 'help fix my problems, I can't do it myself'.

This is probably the harshest bit of dating advice for women you'll hear, but sometimes you really have to work hard to make a relationship work.

(*This is super important at the start of any relationship but less so as it becomes more serious)

6. DO NOT REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR

If a guy cancels a date with you without a decent reason or teases you too much in front of his/your friends, the worst thing you can do is smile and laugh.

He needs to know when he has stepped over the line. There is no need to throw your drink at him. But ignore him for a little bit. If it happens again, you need to tell him straight up when you are alone that you are walking if he ever tries it again.

It might sound harsh or mean. Well that's because it is. But relationships aren't always a breeze. The good ones take work and not rewarding bad behavior is probably the most imposrtant point to take from this dating advice for women.

7. LET HIM OPEN UP WHEN HE WANTS TO

Ever wonder what he's thinking about.

"How come he never tells me how he feels?"

Here's the thing. If a guy is truly mad about you, then he will open up when he is ready.

Prodding and pleading with him to open up about his feelings will get him doing the exact opposite (the scientific term is cognitive dissonance folks). If he does open up it's only because he felt forced to and will resent you for it.

8. BE REAL

Everybody has an ideal version of themselves that they would like other people to see. They hope that the guy they are trying to attract sees them this way too. Perfect beauty, perfect life.

You're not the only one. Guys do this too. They act macho and like to pretend that every girl wants them.

It's okay to present yourself as perfect for the first few dates but if you feel like you have to always be 'on' then you will put unneeded stress on yourself. This is probably the most important of all the dating advice for women that you can use if you want your relationships to last in the long term.

Added to this, the guy you are with will start to notice cracks and slowly start questioning whether or not you are who you say you are.

So you need to be real when flirting, chatting and dating guys. If they don't like you for who you are then don't bother with them.

Does this mean I should tell them about my problems straight away.

HELL NO!

Just don't desperately try to hide every single little and imperfection and blemish.

BE REAL

Hope you enjoyed this introduction to dating advice for women, for more great dating tips, tactics, information and general dating advice for women, check out this articles below

DATING TIPS FOR GUYS

The purpose of 'dating tips for guys' is to get you up to speed as quick as possible with meeting, attracting and seducing girls as well as forming meaningful relationships with them and making them last.

Have you ever wondered why some guys just 'get it', while you afraid to even talk to a girl?

Have you ever been left confused when girls give you advice like, "Just be yourself" or "Give her compliments", only for that exact advice to leave you alone with no girls.

So let me lay a few hard truths on you.

"Just be yourself" means to be the same relaxed fun guy that you are with your friends, who doesn't worry if the girl likes him or not.

"Give her compliments" means give compliments to the girl, BUT only if she is first attracted to you.

Here at Real-Dating-Tips, we only give dating tips for guys that work. No feel good filler. Don't worry we will be giving you specific tips for attracting women.

First you need to and study the first stage of this book and as well understand

Men and women are attracted to different things

Ø Men are primarily attracted to physical beauty.

Ø Women are different. While physical beauty is helpful, it's not too important. Women are attracted to things that are fortunately under a guys control. Dating tips for guys will explain exactly what those thing are and how to implement them.

So if you are interested in improving your dating life with women as well as specific aspects of it, then I highly suggest you subscribe to the dating tips blog and start reading the dating tips for guys articles below

WHAT ATTRACTS MEN

Want to know what attracts men? Follow these simple steps and soon you will have men falling at your feet.

LOOK ATTRACTIVE

Does this even have to be said? Guys like pretty girls. They like girls that dress well and look healthy. Men don’t lie awake at night and dream about the girl who has no style and is 50 pounds overweight. Sorry if that sounded harsh, but we need to be honest here. Guys prefer women that are well dressed, are athletic looking (that means not overweight and not underweight either). It is also important to try and maintain blemish free skin. If you are having serious problems with your skin, then go and see a dermatologist.

Ok so that may have sounded a little mean, but having talked to loads of guys about what they like in girls we decided that the best way to help was to cut straight to the point.

CHALLENGE HIM

Ever wonder why men go hiking, climb mountains and do other things that seem like total nonsense? They love challenges. It’s as simple as that. What attracts men in girls is a challenge. It boosts their egos knowing that they completed a difficult task or accomplished something that took a lot of effort. They feel the same psychologically when it comes to dating. They appreciate girls that they have to work for a lot more than girls that are total pushovers.

So to be more challenging to guys there are a few specific things you can do:

If he asks you out on a date say “maybe”. Then only agree to go on one if he promises to make it fun.

Walk away every once in a while during a conversation with him without offering explanation.

Always end conversations on the phone first.

Make sure you always have other guys in your life that are just friends.

Using all these tips to challenge men will make him desire you far more than if you followed him around like a puppy and begged him to be with you. So remember: Being a challenge is attractive to men.

INDEPENDENT WOMAN!

Everyone has heard the phrases, “Girl Power!” and “Independent Woman”. A lot of people unfortunately believe that being an independent woman means not having a man or having one that you treat badly. This is completely wrong!

Guys prefer independent women because independent women don’t really need a man in their lives. The funny thing is that men see this as a challenge. They want the girl that they can’t have. On top of this, most independent women have their lives together, which is very attractive to men.

An independent woman does not necessarily have to be the girl who runs her own business or is very wealthy. It can be as simple as having your own group of friends and hobbies that you do and don’t want your man intruding into.

WHAT MEN FIND ATTRACTIVE

Many women struggle with figuring out what men find attractive. When you ask guys, they’ll always say that looks are important. Let’s be honest then girls, looks do count when it comes to attracting men………BUT (and it’s a big BUT) there is a lot more than looks if you want to keep any man that you really care about it.

So before we get into the main tips you can use right now to increase your attractiveness to men, please remember that yes, your appearance certainly does matter, but looks alone won’t keep men around in your life.

INDEPENDENCE

Many girls fail to realize that men are massively attracted to women that they can’t have or control. This is super important. Read that sentence again to make sure you remember it.

Sure, guys might tell you that they want a girl who is loyal and sticks around. But just ask any girl that is super loyal and does stick around their boyfriend (or ex-boyfriend) and they will all tell you the same thing. Guys don’t respect girls who act like their personal lap dogs. They might like it for a while, especially at the beginning but soon they will get bored and start looking for another girl.

This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be loyal. You should be loyal, but you also need to understand that by being independent you are showing your man that if he ever steps out of line, you have no problem continuing on with your life without him, as you have so many other things going on.

BE FUN

Ask any guy, “What do men find attractive?” and they will tell you that a fun girl with a sense of humour is very important. It’s a factor that is near the top of every guy’s list when looking for a girlfriend.

So being a fun person, who isn’t afraid to joke around and have some banter is good. But the best type of ‘fun’ that men find attractive is to be flirty. That is to be the kind of girl who can tease and poke fun at guys in a playful (not hateful way).

The kind of fun person you want to avoid being is the ‘party girl’. This is the kind of girl who HAS to be the centre of attention. These are the kinds of girls who wear trashy/skimpy/slutty clothes and appear to be very sexual (even if they’re not). This is not what men find attractive.

Sometimes the line can be quite fine, but try and make sure you are not seen as the ‘party girl’ but are seen as a fun girl.

WHAT MEN WANT FROM WOMEN

What men want from women, what they want in a girlfriend and what truly attracts them is not actually that complicated. There are two things they look for: 1. The undeniable fact is that yes, guys prefer good-looking women. 2. The other thing men look for in women is how the girl they are with makes them feel.

LOOKING YOUR BEST

Like we just said previously, men do prefer good-looking women. So if you are serious about finding the man of your dreams and truly do want to know what men want from women, then read on. There are a few simple things that you need to keep in mind for looking your best. Firstly, make sure that you are fit and healthy, but don't take that as meaning that you should be skinny. Just because your friends are dieting doesn’t men that you should start dieting. Guys actually do like curves, they like a nice bum and hips. Don't worry if you are carrying a few extra pounds provided that you do stay healthy, toned and fit.

As well as being healthy, it's also important to wear clothes that accent your good features and you feel comfortable in. This will help you to be more relaxed and calm when you are around guys you like. The same goes for makeup. Wear makeup that accents your best features and conceals any blemishes. And keep in mind that less is more. Think about it, most guys want to go out with a girl who doesn't wear a lot of makeup but still looks good.

HOW YOU MAKE HIM FEEL

While looking your best is certainly important for attracting guys, especially in the early stages of dating/courtship/relationships, how you make him feel is what men really want from you as your relationship progress is. Giving a man good emotions or more accurately, positive emotions when you are around him is critical if you want him to stick around as it sets off a positive feedback loop whereby he associates positive emotions and feeling good with you.

In this respect, what men want from women is a little different than what women want from men. Many women prefer to experience a range of emotions when dating a guy. From excitement to intrigue to fear to surprise. Men actually prefer mostly positive emotions and avoiding the extremes of emotion.

Many dating sites may advise you that making a man jealous or a little insecure will make him want you much more. This is completely true BUT, and it's a big but, making a man insecure and jealous will also make him distrust you and possibly resent you, something you certainty don't want in a long-term relationship.

The key to making a man want and desire you while not giving him bad emotions or making him feel insecure is variation. Instead of doing the same thing for him over and over again, you need to alternate the things you do for him. So if you call him everyday, don't call him one day, then maybe call him twice the next day.

This would keep him stimulated when he is around you and will get your guy associating positive emotions with being around you. Just remember the key is variation. So doing things like making him his favorite meal, kissing him where he really likes to be kissed, taking him to this favorite bar or dressing up really sexy for him is great but doing these things every day will make your boyfriend grow bored of you quickly. So that's it, that's what men really want from women.

HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN HAPPY

When girls want to know the secret of how to keep your man happy, they think that the best thing to do is whatever he wants. This is completely wrong!

To keep your man happy, you need to be able to do 5 things:

1. Make sure he is attracted to you.
2. He needs to feel that you are attracted to him and also in with love him.

3. He needs to feel like there is a future to your relationship.

4. He needs a girl who is good in bed
5. He needs a girl who is not needy.

HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN HAPPY (IN DETAIL)

1. Showing a guy that you are attracted to him is a little different than showing him you love him. To show him that you are attracted to him requires physical action. This means that you need to kiss him, hug him, massage him and initiate sex. To show him that you love him requires doing nice things for him that you wouldn’t normally do for any other guy. This could mean making him his favourite meal, buying him something nice when you are getting groceries or even doing his laundry. The key to this is not to make a big deal about doing these things. It has to appear to your man that it doesn’t take much effort and that you enjoy doing nice things for him.

2. Showing your man that there is a future in your relationship simply requires making plans with him for the future. They need to be both short term and long term plans. So a short term plan with the guy your are dating could be planning to go to the movies at the weekend, while a long term plan could be what you are going to do for your summer holidays together. Some guys may get a little scared if you are constantly planning things years into the future, so it’s best to make them loose plans unless your guy is very enthusiastic.

3. Not being needy is essential to your dating success. Just as girls hate dating needy guys, men hate dating needy girls. Being needy kills attraction and destroys relationships. The key to avoiding neediness is having a life outside of your relationship. That might be hard to stomach for some, but having nothing else to do except cuddle your boyfriend is like water on a fire, it kills his attraction for you. So make sure you have an active social life with your friends and are doing activities independently outside of your relationship that you enjoy.

DOES HE LOVE ME

Asking yourself, “Does he love me”? can be very frustrating. Especially when you are with a man that doesn’t outwardly show affection as much as you’d like. By following these simple clues, you’ll quickly be able to tell whether or not your man truly loves you or not.

TIME SPENT WITH YOU

The single most important characteristic of a guy who loves you is how much time he spends with you. If a guy is truly, madly, and deeply in love with you, then he will want to spend as much time with you as possible. Is he always making excuses to go out partying with his friends or is he always making excuses to spend time with you? Guys who put off things that they otherwise enjoy are men who are either in love or they are falling in love.

WHAT DOES HE TELL YOUR FRIENDS?

If you are still confused and wondering, does he love me, then maybe your friends have the answer. Guys who fall in love with you are guys who will talk about how great you are to others. If he is talking to your mates, the subject of you is bound to come up. Does he wax lyrical about all you great qualities or is he laughing at you behind your back? If he is in love with you then the answer is obvious; he will be singing your praises.

THE ANSWER COULD BE IN HIS EYES

Guys who are in love with you and feel strongly attracted to you can’t help themselves when it comes to looking at you. The stare, stare and stare some more! When you are with him does he look lovingly into your eyes? When you are both talking does he keep his eyes focused on you or is he constantly checking out other girls? Guys who keep checking out other girls when they are with you are definitely not in love with you and may also be the cheating kind. Obviously eyes do sometimes wander, but if it’s happening more than a few times, then stay away.

RANDOM COMMUNICATION

One dead giveaway sign that your boyfriend loves you is if he contacts you ‘just to talk.’ Everyone dates guys who will text and phone you to make plans, but guys who are crazy about you will get in contact with you just for the sake of it. He may call, text, send you an email or leave a post on your facebook wall just to say ‘hi’ and see how you are. That’s it. Some guys don’t like the phone and prefer to talk face to face so if this isn’t happening then don’t take it as a serious sign that he doesn’t love you.

FUTURE PLANS TOGETHER

Guys who make plans with you for in the future are most definitely in love with you. They do it for 2 reasons. Firstly to see if you plan to spend time with them in the future. It’s like a test. Secondly they do it because they couldn’t bear the possibility of you not being with him in the future.

DOES HE REALLY LOVE ME?

It can be a scary time when you are asking yourself, “Does he really love me?” Don’t be afraid, every girl and every couple go through ups and downs, smiles and frowns. Watch out for these major signs to check if he does really love you.

DOES HE TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE ABOUT YOU

If a guy truly loves you then he won’t be able to help himself from telling his friends and your friends about how he feels about you and how great you are. So when you talk to others that know him, do they mention that he talks about you a lot? If a guy doesn’t care about you then he either won’t talk about you or will only talk about you in a negative way.

DOES HE DO NICE THINGS FOR YOU

When you are wondering, does he love me, ask yourself, “Does this guy do nice things for me?” When you have had a hard day at work or in school, does your man go the extra mile to alleviate the stress for you or is he totally self centred and moans when you ask for some help with simple chores? It’s obvious that he doesn’t really love you that much if he’s always moaning or refusing to help out.

DOES HE DO THINGS ‘JUST BECAUSE’

When a guy really loves you, you will always be on his mind, he just won’t be able to stop thinking about you. Because of this he won’t be able to help himself from doing nice things for you. He might prepare little suprises for you, such as your favorite meal or bringing you to your favourite place.

GUYS WHO DON’T CARE ABOUT YOU NEVER TRY TO IMPRESS YOU OR SHOW YOU HOW MUCH THEY CARE.

THE MOST IMPORTANT WAY TO TELL DOES HE LOVE ME

The most important and simplest way to tell is a guy really does love you is to…..(drum roll please)….ask him. You don’t have to ask him directly, “Do you love me?” but instead you can broach the subject by asking him something a little less serious, such as, “Where do you see us in six months?” If he responds positively to that, you can then ask deeper questions, like, “Do you really love me?”

HOW TO FLIRT WITH A GUY

When you know how to flirt with a guy then dating becomes very easy. Using these flirting tips will improve your dating life and relationships with men. More importantly, being a good flirt will give you options with guys. Just remember that while these tips are useful, you can’t rely on them alone to attract men, you also need to be able to hold a good Conversation.

HOOK HIM THEN RELEASE HIM

Many girls get caught up with that phrase, “Treat him mean, keep him keen”. Treating a guy mean might work sometimes, but it will leave him feeling resentful and does not lead to a lasting, trusting relationship. Instead you need to flirt in a way that pushes him away and then pulls him back in. Some examples of things you can say are:

“I really like your shoes…..did your mom buy them for you?” said with a smirk/smile to let him know that you aren’t being serious.

“I have something I have to tell you……wait, I can’t tell you right now, maybe later”

You may notice that both of these comments may sound harsh or mean but when said with a smile or smirk it shows guys that you are only playing and are not really that serious about hurting their feelings. The structure is to hook their interest with a pleasant comment, then release it by saying something playful, cheeky and a little mean.

FLIRT IN PRIVATE

If you are going to flirt with a guy, then it’s best to do it when there aren’t too many people around to hear what you are saying to each other. This makes your flirting more intimate and meaningful than if you were flirting in front of your friends. It allows your boy to relax and actually open up to you without having the pressure of being watched by his friends.

DON’T BE TOO SEXUAL

When you do get a chance to flirt with a guy you like, make sure that you are not acting too sexual. Nothing kills sexual tension more than being blatantly sexual when chatting or flirting. It’s much better to hint at the naughty stuff than it is to come right out with something overtly sexual.

Example 1
“If you don’t behave, I might have to do something about it” (said with a sly smile)

Example 2
“If you don’t behave, then there will be no sex”.

The first example is good, as it will get a guy thinking about what might or might not happen.

The second example is terrible as it shows a guy exactly what you are thinking about. This is not attractive and will not keep a guy interested for long.

DON’T FLIRT FOREVER

It’s good to use flirting to spice up your interactions with guys, but don’t rely on it as your only conversational technique. A good flirter is one who can have a normal conversation and say something flirty every once in a while. You do not need to have a clever comment for every response.

BE INTERESTED

People sometimes think that learning how to flirt with a guy is all about saying funny or cheeky things. It is, but you also need to be interested in the guy you are flirting with. To do this, you need to ask him questions about things that are genuinely important to both of you. While this may not seem like a great way to flirt, it is very effective at making a guy attracted to you.

SIGNS OF FLIRTING

Learn these signs of flirting and you will always know if someone is trying to chat you up or flirt with you.

SMILING IN YOUR PRESENCE

If someone is attracted to you and likes you then they will always be smiling in your presence. People who like you feel good when you are around and so can’t help smiling when they are in your presence

Laughing at your jokes (even when they aren’t funny)
If someone is attracted to you, they will be laughing at all your jokes even if some aren’t that funny. Make sure to look out for this when you are wondering if someone is flirting with you.

FRIENDLY TEASING

This is the number one sign that someone is flirting with you. People who tease others in a friendly way are definitely flirting even if they deny it. Friendly teasing is saying something a little mean but in a joking way. For example they might say,

“Cool shoes, I’m guessing your mom bought you those.”or
“Maybe we should hang, I could bring you shopping and pick you out some clothes that fit.”

These two sentences may sound mean if you said them very deadpan and seriously, but when said in a joking way with a smile on your face, the are great examples of flirting and friendly teasing.

TOUCHING

This is the most obvious sign that someone is flirting with you. When someone touches you just once or twice, it’s not a major sign that someone is flirting with you, but if you find that they are touching more regularly then it’s a sure sign that they are a flirter. So remember that if you want to flirt with someone, make sure to touch them.

THE EYES HAVE THE ANSWER

If someone is flirting with you they will constantly making eye contact with you even when you aren’t talking to them. If you notice that they make eye contact with you and then quickly look away (and blush) this is a clear indicator that they are attracted to you.

FLIRTING TIPS FOR SHY GIRLS

These flirting tips for shy girls will help get you the guy you want by making you more confident. Becoming a good flirter takes patience and practice, so it’s important to remember that while these flirting tips will definitely help you get better at flirting, it will take some practice before you become expert.

YOUR APPEARANCE

You may not have expected to see this as the first tip, but it’s important to make sure you dress well and look after your appearance as it does matter. This does not mean that you should dress like a slut! Just make sure that what you are wearing is attractive.

USE YOUR SHYNESS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

The previous tip explains that you should not dress slutty. This is a crucial yet sometimes misunderstood concept. Dressing slutty will give you the appearance of being sexually aggressive, but it’s the man’s job to take the lead when it comes to this stuff, remember?

This is what’s so attractive about shy girls. Men like to think that they are the ones moving the interaction forward. By being shy but (but not necessarily submissive) you can allow men to fulfil their roles as the dominant one.

ASK HIM ABOUT HIMSELF AND BE INTERESTED

There are just as many shy men as there are shy women, so sometimes a man may be a little bit afraid to take the lead when you are talking to him. The best way to solve this is to ask him questions about himself. Ask him what he is currently doing for school/work (maybe a little boring but a good start), what he does for fun when he’s not talking to you, where was the last vacation he took, what’s the craziest thing he’s ever done or what he’s planning to do for the summer.

The key to asking these questions is that you must be interested in the answers. If you don’t care about what you are asking him, then he will sense it and lose interest.

SMILE AND BE HAPPY

Hopefully this flirting tip for shy girls is obvious. People like to be around happy and positive people, they don’t want to be stuck with people who bring them down and make them feel bad about themselves. So look for reasons to be happy and positive but also to make other people happy and positive. You may be shy, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have to be positive.

DATING TECHNIQUES GUYS

FOREPLAY FOR GUYS

This is a little trickier to get right but far more important. Think of women like the volume knob on the radio and you are trying to turn it all the way up to 10, but are starting out at zero.

First begin by slowly massaging and kissing your girl. Then slowly begin to undress her while rubbing and kissing her body (this should last between 5-20 minutes). After doing this for a while, move on to massaging her breasts and vagina areas before entering her with your fingers.

Great Foreplay Techniques for Guys

Ø A great and little used way to begin foreplay is bathe or wash each other before drying each other and then becoming more physical

Ø Get your girl to lay on her stomach while you straddle her above her butt. Make sure that she is naked from the waist up. Begin slowly and softly kissing her from her shoulders all the way down to her lower back and back up again to include her neck and ears. This should take between five and ten minutes.

Ø This time get your girl to lie on her back, while you work from her feet to her neck, slowly kissing her everywhere but just avoiding her most sensitive spots to tease her and make her want more.

Physical Foreplay

This involves touching her and how close you are next to her. Areas on a girls body to touch during the day are: the inside of the elbow, the neck, back of the knee, her legs, arms and hands. Make sure to keep the touching light and playful. It can be a thrilling experience for a girl to be with guy who is teasingly touching her throughout the day, without any serious, heavy touching ever taking place. Just make sure you are discreet.

As you move to a more private location, you can increase your physical touching to include the rest of her body.

The most important thing to keep in mind the entire time,

"Go slow"

Something very powerful that men do not regularly practice is Hot/Cold. That is to gradually increase the amount of physical touching taking place(Hot), then removing it completely(Cold) and just start kissing her or talking to her. This makes the foreplay that much more compelling and although it is not often spoken about, it is something women really want in bed.

People often ask what specifically they should do?

First up, one of the most important things that women want in bed is to make sure you respect the woman's boundaries and make sure she is comfortable at all times.

Once in a private setting such as the bedroom, you will usually by sitting together on the bed or by standing up together.

1. It is the man's responsibility to lead the foreplay, do not expect the woman to initiate it! But make sure you stop if she says "Stop!" otherwise you are breaking the law.

2. Start with kissing (do not give her the machine washer with your tongue! This is definitely not what women want in bed) and softly caress her body. Sometimes even at this early stage it's good to try Hot/Cold

3. Do not go straight for the breasts or between the legs.

4. It's much more enjoyable to tease the woman by stroking around them first

5. Provided she is comfortable, you can start removing her clothes and start caressing her body further. Again remember to make sure she is comfortable throughout.

6. Once you can tell that she is getting quite turned on, start progressing further. Start massaging her inner thigh but try to stay away from directly between her legs, except for very light, short touches.

7. Once you can see that she is ready for you it's time to progress to actually having intercourse.

8. Make sure there are condoms close by as rummaging around in a drawer will seriously kill the mood.

9. When you do finally enter her, try not be a one minute wonder. What women want in bed is someone who can provide a range of different feelings. Not some guy who just gets the job done as quick as possible! This might be what men want in bed but is definitely not what women want in bed!

10. Remember that variety is the spice of life. Try to mix things up in the bedroom to prevent things from getting stale and boring

CONVERSATIONAL FOREPLAY

Something many men do not realize is that foreplay is not necessarily just a physical thing. Women really like a guy with good 'game'. Someone who can make them feel special and sexy just from what he is saying. Think James Bond, not Napoleon Dynamite.

HOW CAN YOU DO THIS AS A MAN?

1. By teasing her like you would if she was your little sister, but doing it just a little.

2. By not getting overly excited when the conversation turns naughty.

3. By telling her about exciting things you do in your life (no girl wants to imagine the guy they're with as the computer programmer from cubicle 7G).

4. By leading the conversation and not desperately trying to talk about what's going to happen later in the evening.

So as you might have guessed, foreplay is what women want in bed and makes your dating life a lot more enjoyable.

HOW TO BE GOOD IN BED AFTER THE FOREPLAY

The entire time that you are arousing your partner, you want to approach it by taking two steps forward and one step back, so that your girl or guy is being teased slightly the whole time, making them want more from you throughout the entire time that you are arousing them and having sex.

This two steps back and one step forward framework needs to be done without your loved one telling you to stop. So you could move from kissing their neck for a few minutes to then just massaging it. Or you could go from rubbing and stimulating their genital region to kissing their neck and back. Or you could go from full penetration to stopping for a little bit and using your mouth to stimulate your partner’s vagina/penis.

LOVE MAKING TIPS

These love making tips are designed to spice up your sex life and make getting physical with your partner more intimate and enjoyable for the both of you.

Remember that there are many different things you can do when it comes to lovemaking that will both excite and arouse your partner, but the single most important thing to remember is to be safe throughout.

While there are a lot of dating and lovemaking tips that will tell you to light candles, or cook a nice meal, these lovemaking tips cover everything from setting the scene to turning your lover on (both physically and emotionally) to making sure you both enjoy being together.

That most important love tip when making love that you can remember, before we get into specifics in the articles below is VARIATION, so please remember to use all these tips sparingly

and with variation, enjoy!

LOVE MAKING TECHNIQUES

Using different love making techniques to improve your sex life is a smart move if you want to keep things fresh in your relationship. There are many different yet simple lovemaking techniques you can use to change things up.

DIFFERENT LOVE MAKING POSITIONS

The first thing most people think about when they decide to improve their love life is using new lovemaking positions to spice things up. A lot of people want to try kamsutra or some other kind of exotic sexual positions, when in fact it’s often the much simpler positions and techniques that yield the best and most enjoyable results when it comes to lovemaking.

Doing things as simple as changing your angle of entry or leg position can change where you stimulate each other. Luckily it doesn’t require you to be flexible like a gymnast.

LOVE MAKING TECHNIQUES TO USE TO TONIGHT

Ø Light small candles and put them alongside the walls of your bedroom. This is a fantastic lovemaking technique as it gives your room a lovely, warm, glowing light.

Ø Use incense and music at a low volume to add to the atmosphere.

Ø If you’re a guy, get your girl lingerie or if you’re a girl, wear lingerie

Ø Put a blindfold on your partner.

Ø Tie your partner to the bed.

Ø Use warm massage oil to massage your partner

INTIMATE POSITIONS

Using intimate positions in the bedroom to get closer to your partner is a great idea. Before giving you these great love making positions, here are a few quick intimate techniques to use before you start making love.

TOUCH

Many people have no problem telling others how they feel about them, but few show others how they feel. Touching by hugging, embracing or even rubbing your partner is a great way to show them how much you care for them. The next time you see that your partner is frustrated or annoyed, reach out and touch them.

THE LITTLE THINGS

A great way to show someone how much you care for them is do something for them or help them with a problem they may have. This could be something as simple as making them a cup of coffee or running an errand for them when they don’t have the time to do it themselves.

INTIMATE POSITIONS

Now that you’ve learned two easy and simple intimate techniques, it’s time to learn some intimate positions besides giving your man a great blowjob to bring you closer to your partner. A great, guiding rule to use when searching for positions that are intimate is to look at how much skin contact there is between you and your partner. In general, the more skin contact, the more intimate.

THE MOST INTIMATE LOVE MAKING POSITION – SPOONING

Spooning is a wonderful lovemaking position as both partners are in full contact with each other with their whole bodies. Both partners lie on their side, with the man behind the woman so that his stomach is touching her back. The man then enters the woman from behind and puts his arms around her so that he is hugging her. The full body contact that this position gives as well as the loving feeling the girl gets from having her man hug her is wonderful and very intimate.

SEATED FACING FORWARD

For this position, the man sits down in the middle of the bed and spreads his legs out (he can bend them if he needs to). His girl then sits on top facing him, while he wraps his arms around her and hugs her close.

This lovemaking position is awesome as again it brings the bodies into full contact with each other (except the legs which are pointing in opposite directions). One of it’s advantages is that with the girl sitting on top, she will often be elevated a little above her man, so that her neck is in line with his lips allowing him to give her some sensual and sexy kissing to the neck.

LOVE MAKING POSITIONS

Choosing the right love making positions can make you and your partners lovemaking experience that more enjoyable. What’s vitally crucial to remember when deciding on what lovemaking positions or techniques you choose, is that both you and your girl/guy are getting pleasure.

There are a lot of sex and lovemaking guides out there that may seem like a good idea, but it’s crucial to avoid the ones that encourage one partner to very selfish in the bedroom. So without further ado, here are 6 awesome love making positions for you and your lover to use tonight.

THE 69 POSITION

The 69 position is one of the most famous. To pull it off correctly, it’s best for the guy to lie on his back on a comfortable bed, while his girl climbs on top of him, but facing the opposite direction so that he can stimulate her orally while she stimulates him orally. In other words the man gives your cunnilingus while you give your man fellatio.

FROM BEHIND

The woman gets down on all fours, preferably on top of something comfortable while the man then enters her from behind. He can also be on his knees, if you are both in bed, but he can be standing if the girl is on an elevated bed while he’s on the floor.

COWGIRL

This position for making love is great for girls as they are in control. The man lies on his back, while his girlfriend then gets on top of him and straddles while facing him.

REVERSE COWGIRL

Same as above, but this time the girl is facing the opposite direction, so that her back is facing the man.

SPOONING

This is by far the most intimate lovemaking position that you can do. It involves but the guy and the girl lying on their sides, facing the same direction, with the man behind his girl, facing her back. This is really intimate as the guy is able to hug his girl and be really close to her also.

REVERSE MISSIONARY

This sex position is achieved when the woman lies on her stomach and spreads her legs while the man enters from behind. A great variation of this is where the woman keeps her legs pressed together, while the man then enters her from behind as he straddles her.

MARRIED COUPLES MAKING LOVE

Use these awesome tips for married couples making love to spice up your sex life, make you more intimate with your wife and ultimately make your marriage a better one. Once you finish reading these great tips, there are more awesome lovemaking tips in my next edition of love making tips.

VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE

This is the single most important thing to take from this married couples making love article! Variety really is the difference between a fun and interesting sex life or night after night of plain, old missionary. Don’t just take ‘variety’ to mean you should change what positions you use for sex. It means a lot more than just that. You should change locations, frequency as well as using different roleplay scenarios or even toys and lubricants.

THE TIME

Most married couples make love at night or early in the morning. This is absolutely fine. The only problem however is that you are both going to get very bored of having sex at the same time everyday. Instead you need to be more impulsive. The next time you both have a few minutes free, grab your loved one and tell them you have something to show them upstairs. Then just have a quickie. It could be any time during the day. Maybe you just came home from dropping the kids to school or maybe you have ten minutes free before dinner. It doesn’t matter. Making love at these random times is exciting as you’ll never know when one of you is going to grab the other and head upstairs to ‘get jiggle’.

THE PLACE

You are going to find that you quickly get bored of being just like every other married couple making love in the bedroom. Instead you need a change of scenery. The next time you are in the mood to ‘get down to it’ with your partner, just make sure you are somewhere private. You might see her/him with their back to you at the stove. Go over and slap their butt and let the know what you want. Or maybe your husband just came in from work and is quite dirty. Don’t let him have a shower! Make love first and do it exactly where you are.

ANTICIPATION

The previous tips will definitely help make things more exciting for you and your partner, but you may even find yourself getting a little bored or worse: you can get worn out from all this lovemaking action. What you need to do to prevent this from happening is hold off every once in a while. Do this to create anticipation. So try not making love for a day or to, and then when your husband or wife leasts expects it, jump them and demand sex.

Other things that are good on occasion, but should not be used every time you have sex are toys and lubricants. They can be fun to surprise your loved one with, but are most fun when used only occasionally.

HOW TO MAKE A GIRL SQUIRT (ORGANISN) FOR GUYS

Knowing how to make a girl squirt is an awesome technique to have in your arsenal. When word goes round that your can make girls ejaculate, you will have some very eager girls seeking out your services.

Today you are not going to be sold some long-winded, hyped up package, you are getting everything for free! This one simple technique will make your girlfriend/partner/wife have intense, squirting orgasms every time she cums.

Before we get to the technique, it is first very important to make sure that you are both hygienic. So make sure that neither of you have any transferrable diseases and both of you have showered and cleaned yourselves recently. On top of this you must both have each others consent.

‘THE HOOK’ - THE ONLY SQUIRTING TECHNIQUE YOU NEED

The Hook is the most powerful technique you can use to make a woman squirt and cum hard. After about 30 minutes of good foreplay where you can tell that your girl is highly aroused (deep breathing usually indicates high levels of arousal), you are going to use a technique called the hook to make her squirt.

THE HOOK

To perform the hook, make sure that your girl is lying on her back and is very aroused. Insert your middle and ring fingers into your girls’ vagina, while leaving your index and baby fingers outside the vagina and pointing down towards the bed.

Curl your two fingers in her vagina so that they are trying to touch your palm. This will cause you put pressure on your woman’s G-Spot and Skene’s Gland with your fingers while the top of your palm should be pressed against her Clitoris.

Now you need to start vibrating your hand and fingers (while pulling upwards) so that your hand is stimulating all three spots simultaneously.

That’s it!

Provided you performed enough foreplay, your will make your girl squirt very quickly (it usually takes less than a minute).

Now some girls don’t squirt from the hook (even though they still cum quite hard).

Here’s why......

The reason for this is that when a girl squirts or ejaculates, the fluid comes from the Skene’s gland through the urethra (the same tube that her urine/pee goes through). The Skene’s gland is also located quite close to her bladder.

As a result, when she feels like she is going to ejaculate, she gets the same feeling as when she needs to pee. So she will prevent herself from ejaculating because she thinks that she is going to pee all over the bed!

If you want your girl to ejaculate, then you need to explain to your girl how the process works and that you understand how she is going to feel like she needs to pee, but that it’s not actually pee, it’s ejaculate.

Once your girl relaxes and understands what’s happening, you will have learned how to make a girl squirt.

Unfortunately, some girls just can’t relax and they’ll never be able to achieve squirting orgasms, but hey at least you have a new technique to add to your sex toolbox. There's plenty more you need to know if you want to fully please your girl. My second edition (Top Dating Tips and love Making)

Top Tip:
If you want your girl to squirt heavily, then ask her to have a few glasses of water about an hour before you get down to it so that she is full hydrated.

HOW TO GET A GIRL TO GIVE YOU HEAD

If you are figuring our how to get a girl to give you head, then chances are you are a little frustrated. Many people have used this article to successfully get their girl to give them great oral sex, so read on if you want to know how.

Note: You need to both be consenting adults otherwise you may be breaking the law

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO RELAX

Don’t beg her! Ever!! So many guys just nag at their girlfriend and plead with her to go down on them and give them fellatio. This is a losing strategy. Not only will she not give you head, but she will also lose respect for you because of all your begging.

DON’T MAKE IT A BIG DEAL

Lots of guys make a big deal out of getting a blowjob from their girl. Don’t be one of them. If your girlfriend thinks that you are desperate for a blowjob, then she will hold off and try use it as a bargaining chip. By not making a big deal out of it, she will see it as just another part of sex and making love.

MAKE SURE SHE IS VERY ATTRACTED TO YOU

Girls who are very attracted to their boyfriends are much more likely to give them ‘favors’ than girls who don’t really care too much about their boyfriends. So you have to make sure the attraction is there.

Give her a little something first without asking for anything in return. You will find that by going down on your girl and eating her out or giving her cunnilingus, you will give her some really intense orgasms. By not asking (or begging for anything in return) she will assume that you giving her head is no big deal. Just like her giving you head is no big deal.

Now that you have eaten her out, it’s time to get your girl to give you head. First you want to start off slow. Just kissing her lips, cheeks, ears and neck. After doing this for a while and when she’s comfortable, move her hand down to your crotch so that she can start massaging you outside your pants. Make sure to tell her how good it feels. Then you need to move her hand inside your pants. The whole time you want to make sure that your girlfriend is totally comfortable. If she is not, then you need to stop.

After a few minutes of this (while making sure to tell her how good it feels), tell her that you like it wet and ask her to use some saliva as lubricant. This is the most important part of these how to get a girl to give you head instructions. It will get her used to using saliva when getting you off.

After she is using some saliva for a while, you need to just tell her how good it would feel to have her mouth on your penis. That’s it. At this stage she will either be happy to give you head or will refuse to which there is nothing you can do.

HOW TO PLEASURE A WOMAN

Knowing how to pleasure a woman is like holding the key to the entire female race! This book will show you exactly how.

Now there are a few important facts that you first need to take into account before you set out on your journey to making women have screaming orgasms.

Women don’t get turned on the same way as men do. Imagine a light switch and a dimmer knob. Men are like light switches. They can get turned on almost instantly. Women are more like dimmer knobs when it comes to sex and lovemaking. They get turned on gradually. So remember for a guy, he can be totally aroused in 10 seconds but a girl could take up to 45 minutes to get turned on.

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY CRUCIAL TO KEEP IN MIND!

On top of this, men and women get turned on by different things. Men are aroused mostly through what they see.

WOMEN GET AROUSED THROUGH A COMBINATION OF THINGS:

1.         How the guy they are with makes them feel.

2.         Where they are (Are they in crummy apartment or at in an extravagant bedroom of a      beautiful house?)

3.         What they see.

4.         What they are touching.

Now that you understand that it is difficult for a woman to get turned just by what she sees and that it takes time for her to get aroused, you understand that learning how to pleasure a woman requires you to think a bit differently.

1. As it takes so long for a woman to become properly aroused, it’s important to start turning her   on way before you get to the bedroom. This will make her enjoy you pleasuring her much, much more. So it can be something as simple as telling your wife/girlfriend/partner that you have something naughty planned for her for later, but that she has to wait to see what it is. Or it could be something a bit raunchier like telling her not to wear any underwear when you go out shopping with her.

2. Next you have to set the scene. This means that you must set up where you are going to have sex so that it’s erotic and turns your girl on. It could be something as simple as lighting incense or candles or just throwing a t-shirt over a lamp to give a nice, dim glow to the room. Or you can go crazy and spread rose petals on the bed and get some heart shaped pillows. Or you could plan to get down to sex somewhere besides the bedroom. The key is a bit of preparation.

3. Once you are both together where you plan to have sex, it’s time to start arousing her (getting her aroused is key to learning how to pleasure a woman). First you can offer to give her a massage or foot rub. Then it’s time to move on to kissing her everywhere all over her body as you slowly remove her clothes.

After about 5-15 minutes of this, start kissing her on her lips while running your hands up and down her body making sure to massage her more sensitive areas.

4. Then you need to move on to first massaging her breasts (all you need to do is gently apply pressure and stroke them). After a little bit of this you then need to start stimulating her vagina. Do this by first rubbing her on the outside of her vagina and then once she is wet enough, stick your fingers inside her and apply gentle pressure and rub the inside.

You need to perform step 4 for between 5-30 minutes. Her breathing is a good sign of how you are doing. If her breathing has increased and becomes deeper then you are doing a good job and she is getting turned on and you can be positive that you are pleasing her.

5. The last step is actually entering her and having sex.

HOW TO BE GOOD IN BED

The key to learning how to be good in bed is to keep an open mind. That's exactly why so many people learn things like how to give a blowjob to their man. Many guys and girls are afraid to be vulnerable and to admit that they need to learn new lovemaking techniques or love making positions to be better in bed. Having an open mind gives you the ability to say, “Hey, I need to get better at this.”

This book is going to teach YOU a crucial rule for arousing your partner, the two steps foreward and one step back rule.

But first, understand that getting better in bed doesn’t only involve sex. There’s more to being good in the bedroom than just sex.

HOW TO MAKE A GIRL CUM

When learning how to make a girl cum, just follow these important rules and soon your girl will be having spectacular orgasms.

But before we get to that, it is important that both have you have good hygiene. This is to avoid getting any transferrable diseases from each other. So it is important that you have both showered and are clean.

As well as this it is very important that you are both consenting and not breaking any laws.

WHAT TURNS YOU ON, MAY NOT TURN HER ON

If you’re like most guys, you’ll watch porn and become aroused quite quickly. This is totally normal. However (nearly all) girls are different. Most don’t particularly like porn and it takes them longer to become fully aroused. However we can use this to our advantage when learning how to make a woman cum.

START SLOW

You may be eager to make her cum, but it’s crucial that you start slowly and take your time when trying to arouse your girlfriend/partner/wife. Before even beginning foreplay, you need to set the scene.

What this means is that you need to be able to make your girl feel sexy before you even get to the bedroom. So if you are out at a bar, then make sure that your girl knows how feel about her. You can tell her how sexy she looks. Another great thing to say is, “Dam if these people weren’t here right now, I’d do (insert something sexy here) to you”.

By doing this, you create TENSION. This is a crucial part to turning women on and learning how to make a girl cum.

SLOWLY BUILD UP TO CLIMAX (FOREPLAY)

When you do get to the bedroom, you may want to get straight down to sex, but you need to hold back a little and start foreplay. This means you need to start kissing and massaging her. Kiss her all over her face and body, especially the neck, shoulders and back.

Use your hands to first gently massage and tease her more sensitive body parts (breasts and vagina). Then as she becomes more and more turned on, you can use a firmer technique to massage her.

By teasing, we mean that you can’t just go straight to her sensitive body parts. Counter-intuitively, this will make her more aroused and craving for sex.

USE THE LOVE MAKING POSITIONS THAT WORK BEST

The best lovemaking positions when learning how to make your woman cum are the cowgirl positions as they will allow her to control the level of clitoral stimulation that she receives.

DON’T FORGET ABOUT THE OTHER TYPES OF SEX

When learning how to make your girl cum, you may only be thinking about how to make her cum during sex. Don’t! Many girls have trouble cumming and having orgasms during sex. They find that other types of sex make them cum better.

Try oral sex for example. Many girls find that they cum very hard when being eaten out.

Some girls even report that anal sex is the best for cuming, but you will find that different girls like different things when it comes to learning how to make girls cum.

Overall you may find that it takes a little while to find what works best when figuring out how to make your girlfriend cum.

FLIRTY TEXT MESSAGES

These flirty text messages always get great responses from the guy/girl you send them too. Just remember to send them to the right person!

A flirting text message is good to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to and want to date but you need to be able to follow it up..

Roses r red, violets r blu, I woz feeling bored and decided to txt u!

Don’t reply if u r madly in luv wit me! Reply if u lik me a little!

Stop flirting with me!

Stop reading this message, if u read it till the end, then u’ll fall in love with me, stop it, stop it, stop reading right now. The more you read this the more you are going to fall in love with me. The only way to break the curse is to send this message to som1 else!

Txt bak if you are hot! Don’t txt bak if u r ugly

I’ve got a serious addiction to yes and I’ve got an allergy to no.....so wats it gonna b?

Were u just thinking bout me?......How bout now?

Congratulations! u just won the grand prize! [then wait for them to text back asking what the grand prize is].

[when they text back asking what the grand prize is, write this] A date with me!

Did u just text me? [then when they text back, send the same text message, because then they really did just text you. Don’t do it too often though as they might get a little frustrated!].

FLIRTY TEXT MESSAGES

These flirty text messages always get great responses from the guy/girl you send them too. Just remember to send them to the right person!

A flirting text message is good to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to and want to date but you need to be able to follow it up..

Roses r red, violets r blu, I woz feeling bored and decided to txt u!

Don’t reply if u r madly in luv wit me! Reply if u lik me a little!

Stop flirting with me!

Stop reading this message, if u read it till the end, then u’ll fall in love with me, stop it, stop it, stop reading right now. The more you read this the more you are going to fall in love with me. The only way to break the curse is to send this message to som1 else!

Txt bak if you are hot! Don’t txt bak if u r ugly

I’ve got a serious addiction to yes and I’ve got an allergy to no.....so wats it gonna b?

Were u just thinking bout me?......How bout now?

Congratulations! u just won the grand prize! [then wait for them to text back asking what the grand prize is].

[when they text back asking what the grand prize is, write this] A date with me!

Did u just text me? [then when they text back, send the same text message, because then they really did just text you. Don’t do it too often though as they might get a little frustrated!].

DIRTY TEXT MESSAGES

These funny dirty text messages will get hearts racing. Make sure that you only send them to people who won’t be offended. They are some great examples of dirty sms text messages that you can send to get the attention of someone you like.

Dn’t txt bak if u r madly n luv wit me! Txt me bak if u lik me a little.

Wht’s long, hard and full of seamen?
Answer: A submarine

What’s big, round and full of milk.....don’t thnk of boobies
Answer: Coconuts

You:They say that 83% of girls/guys masturbate in the shower. The other 17% sing. And you know what they sing?
Her/Him: No, what do they sing
You: Oh, you don’t know, you must be part of that 83% then.

Me, u + no clothes, u knw it makes cents.

Had a dream about you last night, did you get a tattoo on your boob? In your dream you had one, just wondering if it’s the same in real life.

Was thinking of sending you a durty sms text message, but then realized that it would be better to send you a naughty picture instead [then send a picture]

If you read this text message, then you are going to start needing, wanting and falling in love with me, so stop it right now.....don’t read another bit.....you are only making it worse.....but you can break the curse...send this text to 3 other people right now. For more on how to send good and Romantic to your love one, get a copy of my sms Title TEXT IT RIGHT

BREASTFEEDING YOUR MAN | WIFE BREASTFEEDING HUSBAND

Breastfeeding your man can be both a pleasurable and erotic experience for you and your partner. Many people who engage in it or nursing find it to be a very bonding experience whether it’s with a boyfriend, partner or husband.

While it is not quite like a regular sexual technique like giving him a blowjob, it's still incredibly fun and definitely worth a try at least once.

The act of giving the milk produced in your body to your lover is also a symbolic gesture that shows your loved one exactly how you feel about them. Some people also have a wife breastfeeding husband sexual fantasy where they get sexual gratification from either breastfeeding a man or being breastfeed by a woman (also called erotic lactation). This article will explain how to bring up the subject of breastfeeding with your husband or partner in a positive way so that your partner will be eager to try it out. You will learn how to set the scene to make erotic lactation as enjoyable as possible…..

When considering adult breastfeeding there is one important factor to take into consideration.

"I know I like the idea of breast feeding my husband, but do both of us want this?"

When considering breastfeeding your husband or partner it’s a good idea to first test the waters to see if he is open to the idea. Many men are completely open to being breastfeed by their wife or girlfriend. However, often men don’t want to admit it or they may be scared of sharing their fantasies with you because they may feel vulnerable or they may feel that you won’t be accepting.

So, what you need to keep in mind is that your boyfriend or partner may not be open to the wife breastfeeding husband idea. You should first test the waters with him by asking him if he has any erotic fantasies of his own. If he opens up, then feel free to tell him about yours. A great way to get him to open up and tell you his fantasies is to tell him yours first so that you show him you are open to the idea of sharing.

Another great way to get a man to indulge in one of your fantasies is to first give him a mind blowing sexual exerience. Most people (men included) either don't know what a mind blowing experience is or how to give one. Luckily you can find some great advice right here at Real Dating Tips. You can learn everything from how to give a blowjob to how to please your man sexually.

Then once he opens up and tells you a few of his, you can mention that you like the idea of nurturing him and that you love it when he stimulates your breasts with his hands, but especially like it when he uses his mouth. Maybe mention that it would be wonderful to just have your breasts sucked for ten minutes to half and hour. By doing this you never have to mention that you have an adult breastfeeding relationship fantasy or wife breastfeeding husband fantasy.

Once he begins suckling your breasts, make sure to let him know how much you are enjoying it and how good it feels. If you’d prefer him to suck your nipple, just tell him or move your nipple towards his mouth. Another good idea is to rub his head with your hands just like a mother does with her baby.

Setting the scene for breastfeeding your man can add to the experience. Using dim light and a warm setting is important if you want to give it a “mothery” feel. Two great places for erotic lactation or nursing are in the bedroom after sex and just before you fall asleep or on the sofa while your watching TV. Some men even find it comforting to be breastfeed if they’ve had a long or stressful day of work.

Hopefully your husband or boyfriend will be happy and want to engage in breastfeeding with you. You’ll find that breastfeeding a man feels great to both of you. The nipple is one of the most sensitive areas of your body, so you will definitely find it arousing. Your man will enjoy it because nearly all men love kissing, sucking and suckling women’s breasts.

While some men or women want an adult breastfeeding relationship with their significant other, most couples find that breastfeeding your man is just another nice thing to add to your repertoire in the bedroom, that the wife breastfeeding husband fantasy doesn’t need to be done every night.

Have An Adult Breastfeeding Tip or Fantasy That You Would Like To Share? Do You Have An Adult Breastfeeding Question You Would Like Answered?

Readers from all over the world are submitting their favorite adult breastfeeding tips and fantasies! We will answer any questions you may have on adult breastfeeding. If you have a tip or fantasy that you would like to share to help others get more intimate, then we would love to hear it! Or if you have a question you want answered, then please ask it in the form below!

Four Simple Words

The next time you're out and about, stand in a place that gets a lot of foot traffic.

As a pretty girl walks by, stick out your elbow so she bumps into it.

When she does, say these four words: Ow... you hurt me! (The more dramatic you are, the better.)

Women will almost always respond by reaching out with their hand and touching you and then saying, "Oh my... I'm so sorry."

Respond with, "This shit ain't for free. That'll be twenty dollars."

She'll either laugh or hesitate.

Then say, "You know... if you're broke, we could put you on a payment plan."

Congratulations, my friend. You've sparked a sexually charged conversation with a female stranger.

I should warn you, though. There are 3 myths about dating and attracting women. If you fall victim to any of them, this technique probably won't work for you.

On the very next page, you'll discover these 3 myths and learn how to avoid them like the plague.

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